Hey guys...
I know this has come up lots of times, but I need some renewed advice, maybe some of you have come up with new ideas?

Even though I don't do it too often, I like to have anal sex and use toys back there as well, but it's hard for me to get used to the idea of feeling pressure and some pain back there.
we go slow
we use loads of lube....
and i try to get as turned on as possible before we even really begin
and I still feel too tight and it gets unbearable to go any farther. What do you think I can do? I'm very open minded and I don't want to let this get me down, however since I do experience pain (much more than what I can handle) it makes me not try this as often as I'd like to.

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Kristin