I need help!!!!!!!!

I can't get off, unless I masturbate. :whiteghos

The problem is that I'm on Paxil, which is known to have sexual side effects. Now, I love my boyfriend, and I love making love with him, but...I'm sick of not getting off. I told him I don't fake having orgasms. I tell him I don't have them. He knows why, and he understands. But I need help.

Does anyone else have this problem, where pills affect your libido? If you do, help me! Please!!!!

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Get off the Paxil honey, or have your doctor perscribe something enhance your sex drive, and still be on Paxil. Dont know what to tell you, but if it were me, I need my orgasm. I dont know that any of us can help you with your problem, ask the "doc". Best Wishes

I'm on Seroxat the UK name for Paxil and I know exactly what you're talking about. Often there are times were I find it very difficult to cum........I've found that sometimes I can't cum no matter how hard I try and other times it just takes a while. I've spoken about it on here somewhere before but can't find the link so I'll just go through some of the stuff again. What tends to happen is that I get all the way to the point of climax and then something will catch my attention and the feeling goes this can even be thinking to myself "woo hoo I'm about to cum" that is enough to stop it happening and I'm back to square one. I know it's difficult but don't panic !!!! Try to relax and not think about the need to cum you'll find this just makes it worse. This is most likely why you can cum when you masturbate, you're more at ease and not worrying about what your partner is thinking. I've often found taking a little break and trying again in a couple of minutes has been enough for me to finish. If none of this works then speak to your doctor there alternatives to Paxil and they might help with your problem. What ever you do DON'T just stop taking the Paxil speak to your doc first !!!!!!

Hope that helps you're not the only person out there with this kind of problem and there are ways to get around it.

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I was on Paxil and the other anit-depressants of that same strand. They have a very bad effect on me. Making me very ill and the whatnot. The sexual side affects are, in my opinion, the worse! My husband was going nuts. His once very horny wife who couldnt go a day without sex went to couldnt careless if she went a week without sex. So needless to say I stopped taking them.

If you dont suffer from the other side-effects (such as I did to the point of not being able to get out of bed), then check with your doctor about a new med. There is one (the name escapes me) that has very low sexual side-effects that you may want to try. But please talk to your doctor before discontinuing any of your meds.

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There certainly are sweetie!

But seriously, we've found that sometimes it works to 'starve yourself' for a while.....don't masturbate or have sex for a few days and then you may find this makes a difference.

Also, if you can get off on masturbating, why not do it in front of your partner while he's doing it too? It's kind of the best of both worlds and might help you get rid of any 'performance anxiety' which may be inhibiting you.

Oh and there are plenty of great positions to try where you can get a finger or toy on your clitoris while he's inside you, so that you're pretty much masturbating, rather than relying on his movement to produce the sensations which make you cum.....if you're having difficulty that can sometimes help.

Oh and if all else fails, try having sex while watching porn! That DEFINITELY seems to have been a success with us!

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I've had similar problems with Paxil and I'm having some of the same problems with a new one I'm on called Lexapro.....it is even getting to the point I don't have much interest in sex and I don't even get turned on as easy as I used to. All of this is just killing my wife right now because before the side effects kicked in we were going at it almost every night and now it is like maybe once a week if that. I don't mind too much the problems with having an orgasm but the sudden lost of interest does bother me some. Even admiring all you lovely ladies here on Pixies lately hasn't even stirred Mr. Winkie . Even if I didn't have the lost of sexual interest, lately I haven't had the energy to do much anyways. Seems like all I want to do anymore is sleep and eat.

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