I have noticed from reading posts here and at other sites that Men keep bringing up the same questions..... Mainly about their PENIS size... and that women keep saying the same thing all the time.......

Now My question is........ Why are men so insecure about their sexuallity when women don't really care how Big or small they are??



E

P.S. Yes I'm asking this from a man's point of view....

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Probably for the same reason women are insecure about breast size or the size of their butt or that tiny little roll in the middle..... human nature. Filled with insecurities & self-doubt.

And then I wonder if sometimes its just a way to get the person your with to tell you how great & perfect & wonderful & etc you are.....?????

This from a woman's point of view.

Teddy

Well, when was the last time you saw porn where the guy had a 5" dick?
We never read about the sexy, erotic appeal of a nice, small 4.5" cock, do we?

Sure, the vast majority of women here - and probably the world - would if being honest tell you that size doesn't matter, and it's what you do with it and how you treat them in other ways that are more important. And that's true. But the penis is a symbol of masculinity - the bigger the dick, the more macho society things that person. It's complete crap, but that's the belief.

It's also an instinctive primal thing - the male with the bigger cock is higher on the mating order than its average or smaller dicked pals.
That's animals for you.

Fact of the matter is, there's just something more appealing about a long, thick, hard cock... and that appeal gets emphasised in porn, and what we see in porn often dictates what we think. So it's a deadly circle.

Besides - everyone wants a bigger brain - and, well, men think with their dicks.

Just my thoughts.
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I still think we all fish for a few compliments here and there, though insecurity in our bodies are something that we all face from time to time....no matter how flawless we might be

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My wife and I were discussing this very topic the other day. The conclusion we came up with was:

"Some men need to brag about the size of their penis. Some men just let their wives do it for them."

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Vaginas are amazing. When properly influenced, enticed, a woman can find pleasure in any size member.

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I must agree with Lilith.

ROMANCE & FOREPLAY are the key.

Nature and genetics gave me 6" so in my life i have probably tried that little bit harder because mine is not a "bigone".

I blame society and advertising, but i keep the ladies happy :0P

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And it seems to be the same one you had before. You just can’t argue with the collective wisdom of the Pixie people.

I concur with about everything said but think Casper inclusive response touched the reason that all genital size appearance stirs an involuntary reaction in us. The primal instincts that perpetuate the specie is exploited and manipulated because it works in this animal.




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pf..... what did you just say?? I know all those words seperately but put together as you did, I haven't a clue what you just said; starting with 'I concur' and ending with 'in this animal'. I thought it was a foreign language,,,,,

Whatever pf said Casper I thought you touched on something very important,,,,, but not just porn, the media in general. Young girls are so influnced by images they see in magazines. They try to reach this unattainable look, many of them developing eating disorders or becoming depressed or full of insecurites because they don't look like the 'perfect' girl should look.

No wonder so many of us grow up hating our bodies, which carries over to a general dislike of ourselves overall with lack of confidence, self esteem, etc.

Lets take out a class action suit against the media & false images. Why don't they show a REAL woman or mans size once in awhile?

omg did I get carried away,,,, sorry. The bear will quietly search for some honey now,,,,

Teddy

Lemme tell ya, I would personally run screaming if someone was pointing a dick the size of the ones I see in porn at me!!! Ouch! Just the thought of that makes my eyes cross (not to mention to my legs)

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Moderation is the key. I think ladies are generally happy with any penis in the average range. Miniscule ones don't give them that "I'm full" feeling while monster dicks intimidate them.

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Well and will say that I can only clear the 6 inch mark on a good day, now I can certainly please my wife with it. But you will never be able to convince me that if a well worked 6 incher feels good, that a 7 inch would not feel better. I do believe that girth it’s just as important as length if not more so. I may be just a little on the short side but make up that missing part with some extra thickness. (No it’s not a coke can). I am blessed with the right proportions and a large head, my wife loves it, its not so big that she cant handle it where ever she want to take it. But that still will not keep me from whishing I could reach in deep and gently touch the bottom of her honey pot.

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