Hi

I'm new to Pixies. I've been 18 for over a month now, and I found out about here not long before my birthday. I've enjoyed reading a few of the posts, but I never got round to posting any replies. So here I am now, introducing myself to coolest place to talk about anything to do with sex, but i've got a bit of a dilemma...

I'm a virgin. Surprise. Now I'm stuck in a choice for who to lose my virginity to (although in the first example, there isn't a definate chance of sex). Next week is my colleges leaving ball, and due to the location (a hotel about 12 miles away from where I live, near Manchester in the UK) i'm going to have to take out a room, as I intend on getting blind drunk. The only thing is, a girl that I fancy will be going on her own, and just a couple of weeks ago I was dead-set on asking her to come with me, and I would suggest we take out a room together incase we both got drunk and needed a place to shag in/needed somewhere to sleep in. The only problem I have is what has happened to me just recently.

I've fallen in love with someone online. Truly, utterly fallen. Despite what has been said about finding a girl/boyfriend online, me and my female friend have become incredibly open with each other, and we can talk for hours and hours over ICQ about silly things. Despite it being regarded as quite sad, we have ended up having Text-Sex over the past few nights, and if it carries on we will have to end up meeting each other so we can do it for real. The only problem i've got is that she lives 100 miles away from me, on the other side of the UK.

So what should I do? Should I risk it with a who's near, or should I go for a girl i've never even seen a picture of, but can quite happily talk dirty with for hours? Should I just crawl back into a hole and jack-off over porn?

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