My bf of several months and I have a very healthy, sexual relationship. We've talked about doing numerous things (threesomes, bondage, swapping, etc) to add even more excitement. One of his fantasies is to be tied up and watching another man have sex with me. I don't mind this but, he also says he doesn't mind if I have these little 'adventures' when he's not here, as long as I'm honest, and tell him about it. I know that I'm not as willing to allow him the same freedom so, and I also kind of consider this 'cheating'. Am I wrong? What are your thoughts?

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