I am having a party tomorrow for all the people on my team at work and invited them to bring their main squeezes. This is where my problem starts. One of the ladies I work with has a boyfriend that is very sexually explicit in a come-on sort of way, especially with older women. Not in the cute flirty way but in the 'rubs the inside palm of your hand with his middle finger when you shake his hand, offers to stir your drink with his dick' kind of way. He is often completely inappropriate. The situation is complex becasue we are in general flirty, sassy, sexy talkers but he takes it that one step too far where you are left feeling like he just came all over your face in front of a crowd.

At my last party one older co-worker told him quietly to knock it off. He doesn't take a hint. I am wondering whether I should 1) speak to my friend- I fear she will get her feelings hurt if I crawl his ass first and I still have to work with her 2) Castrate him publicly 3) Take him outside and castrate him -which he may see as a come-on 4) Have a man take him to the side and tell him to knock it off- I fear a possible drunken brawl or 5) Ignore it and trust that my friends are big girls and can manage it themselves.


Any other advice or alternatives?

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