I was just wondering if anyone could offer suggestions or stories on how they dealt with a miscarriage. I'd really appreciate any help that could be given.

You cry. And then when you think you have cried enough, cry some more. It's a loss, loss of dreams, hopes, innocence. You find people who will listen when you need to tell the story over again or people who will just listen while you say nothing coherent.

PM me if you need anything I can offer

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I think you are doing it. You go to they cyber world and find real people that really understand and care.

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SexKitten_18, feel free to PM me as well. As Lilith states, just finding people who listen is a huge help. Time does help to soften the pain a bit, but it never quite goes away. Rest assured that there are people who do comprehend the enormity of such a loss.

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"Life is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets. So love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who don't, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life, then let it, and if you have to wait for what you really want, take the time because nobody said that life would be easy. They just promised it would be worth it." ~ Unknown author

I too am here if you need to talk.

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Like a favorite pair of torn blue jeans, this skin I'm in it's alright with me; it's not old -- just older.....Bon Jovi

My mother would have said that it was a practice round for a really happy baby.

It is just one of those wonderful pieces of shit life rains on you because happiness without pain has no dimension.

It just wasn't to be.

None of the above mean a thing until you've come to terms with it, and when you have, it'll be surplus to requirements.

I'm a bloke, listen to the girls.

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Calm, quiet, smooth, devastating

I really appreciate the offers. I do have someone in my life I could talk to about it, but he's got enough going on in his life, I don't want to burden him with this stuff too. The thing I'm having the most difficulty with is I knew there was a chance I was pregnant, but I still let myself get overly stressed about things that shouldnt have stressed me. So right now I'm blaming myself for it happening. I could have prevented it by just calming down and doing yoga or something, but I didn't. I just don't know how to get over the guilt, even with my best friend telling me it wasn't my fault... I just cant stop feeling guilty and disgusted with myself.