Hmmm....I think you're underrating the kisses/petting. That can be some special stuff.

Really, I think you're doing fine. Take little steps until you don't realize the big ones are big. The best piece of advice I can give you is one you've already figured out here....talk talk talk. You're talking to your spouse, which is great. Now you've found this place, and it's a great chance to talk with other Bi women (and those who love us ) about what you're thinking/feeling/wanting. I remember it used to be like standing on the edge of a cliff.....I wanted to try so much, and just couldn't make myself jump. But when I was ready, the cliff just went away....all I had to do was take a step and kiss the girl. Sounds like you're already past that part .

God knows there's enough in the life to be worried about....don't spin your wheels worrying ABOUT being worried. You'll get there when you're ready.