hitachi, you sound like the kind of guy I'm TRYING to be!! I'm sure your wife thoroughly enjoyed her pampered day, and as several people have already said, was ondoubtedly very appreciative of your thoughtfulness!

Equally, you sound good about having done all those things for her - as well you should! - for me, those two things would be reward in themselves!

Massage.... hugs & cuddles..... pleasant, unstressed conversation... sometimes things like that are harder to achieve than sex... make the most of it mate, and your "time" will come!!

DM

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The selfish, they're all standing in line
Faithing and hoping to buy themselves time
Me, I figure as each breath goes by
I only own my mind