Ok will someone please tell me what went wrong? I thought this would be a sure thing.

My spouse has been working a lot lately in a very stress full job, so I thought I would give her what we call a “pamper mommy day” it is a day where myself and the kids do every thing around the house so she can relax. We let her sleep in and made breakfast in bed for her. Then we cleaned the house and kept out of the way so she could lie in bed and read all day. We made sure she took a nap (3 hours long). After a nice quite day I planned a romantic evening for the two of us. I cooked us a nice dinner, then put a movie on for the kids, so the two of us could have a little time alone together. I fixed us some drinks, drew a hot bubble bath for the two of us, with scented candles and bath oil. We had a nice long soke with her laying back on my chest, I held her in my arms while we talked about some of the past vacations we have been on and the romantic nights we have spent away with just the two of us. I told her that since this was her day,that she should lay back and let me do all the work. So I washed and rinsed her hair for her, washed her body, next I shaved her legs then, trimmed and shaved her pussy. When we were done in the bath I dressed her in a silk night gown took her to bed so we could lay down to read and talk some more (Although there was more petting and kissing going on than reading). At about 10:00pm I got up to tuck the kids in bed. Sound good so far? Well here is where things start to fall apart. When I came back to our room ready for a night of slow, easy passionate lovemaking, she tells me she has a headache and that her back is hurting her. Well being the concerned husband that I am, I promptly started to give her my very best back massage. I guess it must have worked because she fell asleep it about 10 minutes. That was three and a half hours ago, it is now 1:30 in the morning and instead of laying next to the women that I love in post orgasmic bliss, here I sit at the computer telling all of you people about it.
I don’t want to sound shallow. I know she is tired and needs her rest. But damnit everything was going so well. I planned and pulled of a perfect romantic setting. What went wrong?

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Mind what poeple do not only what they say, for deeds will betray a lie.
Terry Goodkind, Wizzards Fifth Rule

There are two things a real man likes--danger and play;and he likes woman because she is the most dangerous of playthings.
Nietzsche


Monogamy does not have to mean Monotony