Show me a man that won't eat pussy and I will show you a man who I can take his wife from him .
I love to eat pussy , I think some one said about licking till the cows come home , I agree .
I will kiss her after she goes down on me , and I expect her to kiss me after I go down on her . After all fair is fair .

Aww the only problem with loving cows is having to walk all the way around to kiss them Lol

Re: Re: men who receive but dont give
 

Was that from a Joe Rogan routine? ;)

The opposite situation
 

Ok, I basically have the opposite problem where I will go down on my wife at the drop of her panties. However, she has never given me a start to beginning blowjob. Let me explain my feelings.

Ok, I have noticed that a lot of times the smell and taste of a woman at the very beginning is less than pleasurable. That is until her juices really get flowing. I feel that if I'm willing to eat a woman out even when she isn't all that fresh, she should be willing to suck me off and deal with a momentary "bad" taste in her mouth. If her jaw begins to go out, just take a break and stroke it for a while as you occasinally lick it. I just see no reason why this type of scenario should happen. I understand that some women are not thrilled at the idea of giving a guy head. My wife is one of these people and I can't remember the last time I asked her to go down on me. Whenever she actually does go down on me it's only for a couple of minutes and most of that is wasted by her on again, off again "routine." I consider myself a good husband and I rarely ask anything of my wife. During forplay, I usually keep going until she literally pulls me from between her legs to tell me to fuck her. I just think it's slightly unfair she is unwilling to give me the pleasure I so often give her.

No one should be forced to do something they don't want to do... How the heck is that enjoyable? If I were in that situation I wouldn't enjoy it if he wasn't completely comfortable with it. So sure, I'd "do without" if he didn't like to do it, and I'd expect the same respect back (although I don't see why I'd have any problems going down on him :)). I'd probably feel like I was missing out but I'm not going to make someone do something for my own physical pleasure.

At the same time though, anyone in that situation that their partner won't give them a good lickin' (male or female) I do sympathise with you. If your partner is just being lazy or stubborn then I think they probably deserve a ban on you giving them pleasure they aren't willing to return. :D

Just on an end note... if all else fails (begging, groveling, etc.), it is Christmas. Try holding some Mistletoe up... It's tradition - not sure people are allowed to refuse then. ;)

just to make it clear, I agree with the above post and I do not try and force her to go down on me.

She taught me not to try to force her a long time ago. I was playing around teasing her with my dick. I started to try to stick it in her mouth until she suddenly let me in, then not so lightly bit the head of my dick.

I haven't even thought of forcing her to do anything since then.

Re: Re: men who receive but dont give
 

We call that "thinning the herd".

I don't get it either...how can anyone not like oral??? Good lord, that's like saying "I don't like air"!!!

The way I see it is I give what I get. If a guy expects me to give him a blow job but has a problem going "down there" then to me it sends a signal that he's a selfish lover. I've never had an issue with kissing someone after they went down on me, it just doesn't bother me.

When I was in college, I had several girls I would go down on, but I could never get a blow job. A lot of of them got off, and then found some cheap excuse for going back home.

It got so bad that I told my friends in college that I will marry the first girl whoever gave me a blowjob. Just one blowjob, and all my treasure is theirs.

Ironically, I didn't even get a blow job until I met my ex-fiancee who loved giving them.

On the birghter side, all thsoe selfish girls did help for me to perfect my technique.

OK - we been disapproving about men who won't go down (they deserve a lot worse). But what about those ladies who will lick a cock for a while but then keep it well away from their face when it actually comes. FRUSTRATING!

I'm sure it's not just the taste that's stopping them finishing the job - after all we're only talking about a teaspoon of medicine. Must be some kind of mental block affecting far too many women.

If Milady had a cock, I certainly wouldn't let all those poor little swimmers get squirted out into daylight.