You're right, Nobody Special, the whole thing about size is just STUPID! A dumb guy with a oversized dick is just as useless as a bimbo with oversized tits.

Second thoughts. Probably less useful; at least the bimbo doesn't hide her rack away completely and we can enjoy the sight as long as we don't have to talk to her. A big dick might be interesting if he could wave it around in public, but Thank God that's not common.

We know that guys have insecurities......as we all do, but I think the point is that you don't see pages and pages of threads about 'Are my breasts large enough/ small enough/ round enough/ soft enough?' on here or threads where women have measured the circumferance of their buttocks and are comparing?

Women DO have insecurities, just like men (and I would argue that we are under more pressure in terms of the images we are exposed to through the media) but at Pixies rather than talk about it.....we women post a couple of pics and see what people think rather than describe ourselves in terms of measurements etc.

What guys need to know is that sexiness/attractiveness/being good in bed is f*** all to do with maths (feet and inches, pounds and ounces etc) and everything to do with a certain twinkle in the eye, the way you make someone else feel, a sense of humour........these are the things which will please a woman in bed ultimately......NOT having an inch more than the guy next to you.

Amen and thank you Loulabelle.

as men there is a certain feeling of competition for available females. i actually stopped being friends with a guy i'd know from age nine 9 to 25 because he felt he should have more than one gf before i got one. i caught him acting on it and just before we went at it a third friend told him that his gf was straying. couldn't fight i was laughing too hard. that's like when i'd tell a woman i'm "adequate " they always cooled off. every guy i know told me he's lasted longer if we discussed sex. yet women tell me quite a differant story. and here i go continuing the circle.

One reason is certainly self-doubt. You always hear things like… Women say, "it isn't the size of the vessel, it is the motion of the ocean" and then you breathe this sigh of relief and you are feeling alright until you then hear some other woman respond..."yeah but only a fool goes out in the ocean in a dinghy" Oh no! Here come those feelings of inadequacy again…I got an email the other day from one of the many “firms” marketing penis enlargement systems. The “head”line was 67% of all women “polled” want their lovers to have larger a penis but they would never say anything to their partner…Oh My God…talk about grading on a curve! What if you figure that 10% of the women are lesbian? That means the remaining 33% is now actually 23%? Only 23% of all women are satisfied with their lover’s equipment?
Thank God for oral sex. But the other day I was taking a good look at my tongue and I was thinking that it was looking rather short.

I don't believe that large penises perform better than average ones. It is all about personality and drive and have had the same opinion expressed by many females that I know. I have, however, overheard some gals talking about certain guys and their size and they seemed to be rather excited about a certain fellow with a very large penis, despite the fact that they had not been with him (or the generally held opinion). So, even though ladies decry no preference for BIG boys, they may not be able to resist the challenge to conquer one and give it a try whereas they may not be so disposed to do the same with “smaller” fellows.

Guys, on the other hand, either don't really give a hoot or they have some degree of performance anxiety. This is just another brand of insecurity. My first lover had a rather small vagina and believe me, large girth is no aphrodisiac for such a woman. It can absolutely be an instrument of fear! :eek: