I am just being curious........

[Lovediva]

Which is better?

Being the Seducer or the Seducee?

And why?

[Lovediva]

I love Seducing my man!
Especially when he is not in the mood! I try my hardest to completely please him!

[ROCKHARD]

I love both but I guess I like seducing best.

[StroKing]

I am a seducer. Why? Cause my girlfriend won't be the seducer.:rolleyes:

[PantyFanatic]

My dear lady, I believe by now most of us have been both the fox and the hound at different times. Personally I usually prefer to be the leader the first couple of intimate encounters. It just feels natural for me to be the explorer. It seems to take the pressure of my lover as she can guide me to her preferences. After we are comfortable enough with each other I will introduce some variations. I have found after this point we are secure with each other and ourselves enough to really get our freak on. It seems we start taking turns with initiation and direction.

Works for me!

[Nubian]

but if forced to choose, I would prefer to be seduced. There's nothing quite like being desired by the opposite sex, and her letting you know it. What a rush!!!

[TDK]

me? ummm would have to be Seduced....heheh, would just liek to have a girl do suprise me and get me all horny up :D

would DIva be interested in seducing me??? .... oops thinking out loud

[Oldfart]

Seduced.

It is far more flattering to be sought after than to just

get a glint in your eye and go chasing. The group of men

who need the conquest to feel like men are not my speed.

[rockman]

SEDUCED, i'm waiting for you to seduce me diva

[Lovediva]

Sheesh!!!!!!!

Everyone wants me to seduce them..... ;) :(


Nobody ever wants to Seduce me!!!! :D :D :D ;)

(As I chuckle jokingly..heeheehee)

[TDK]

ill do both, hehehe, Ill seduce u Diva :D

then u can seduce me, hehehe :D

[celt guy]

diva,
I normally prfer to be pursued, but you are definately one fox i would be happy to hound. Dont blame me if it becomes a kanine theme though.

c.g.

[NaughtyGirl]

I like being seduced, but once in a while I love to seduce my man because it takes him by surprise and I love the look he gets when I do. There is nothing more fun then getting a guy all hot and horny

[m45]

Well we have been together so long that there is not much of that left, if goes more like this, "want to take a shower?" :p "Ya sure, what do you want to do?" :D As in what kind of sex do you want?
Then from there,It seems we start taking turns with initiation and direction.

But as a hunter in the 80's I loved to be seduced by the ladies at the bar, was fun getting picked up, but yet is was fun doing the pick up too...

So either way for me..
:D

[Lady Pleaser]

Who would not like to be seduce by the lovely Diva? I also like to be seduced once in a will.

[motega20]

Well that is a difficult question to answer....I love it when my girlfriend seduces me most of the time but every once in awhile I like to be the seducer

[nutworld]

What's being seduced????

[rabbit]

I guess my answer would have to be that I like being seduced 75% of the time and I like doing the seducing 25% of the time.

What's actually happening is the other way around. Rats...

;)

rabbit

[Prophet Reality]

Well who doesn't want to be seduced though. But I like to be the hunter most of the time. Not for the conquest, but becasue I like to deliver pleasure to that special lady, and by being the seducer, I can achieve that a lot better.

[2-4-tea]

I like to be both. Starting can be as fun as it is when you are being given the attention it all depends on youre partner

[Oldfart]

Seduction is when you chase her till she catches you.

[LetsSee]

Each action has its own charm and fun.

[Glyndwr]

Hi all

Love Diva, looks like you've started a good thread again, wine assisted maybe? btw I would crawl for days across a valley of broken glass just for the chance to seduce you ;)

Meanwhile, back at the question. For me Seduced/seducing are 2 completely different experiences. Being seduced gives me pleasure on a purely physical plane, lie back and enjoy it!!
But seduction is a more mental pleasure, almost like sexual chess. Make the wrong move and it's game over, keep your nerve and you get to 'mate'. But I couldn't say which I prefer, a time and a place for both.

[Lovediva]

Aweee Glyndwr.....not a valley of broken glass....I don't feel like stiching you up when you get here! :D ;)



And I agree with you about making the wrong move....(or saying the wrong name) Definetly game over then!!!!
:D :D

[Prophet Reality]

But Diva.... the thought of you in a nurses uniform could be very sexy to some though. Hell, you in any style of clothes I think would be sexy as hell!

[nutworld]

OldFart,

I just saw your response that was great!!!

DOHH!!! I ran out the door and kept on running and she didnt follow me..now I know why!

[Glyndwr]

Hi Love Diva

Saying I would crawl over a valley of fluffy marshmallow pillows just doesn't have the same ring to it :D

[pje]

I would say seducer for the fact that in my mind its all about pleasing the women and doing what it takes to make her cum repeatedly.

[souls_cry2000]

I find being seduced to be the best. It could be my ego but I enjoy being the center of attention and being seduced makes me feel as if I'm the center of the other person's world.

[Lilith]

Hmmmmmm! I wonder if anyone has a clue how I feel about this issue......... It is my greatest thrill to see the effect I can have on a man. To work him up until he is out of his mind just to have me......when he is in that state I could just devour him;)

[Grumble]

To be seduced, it makes me feel desired.

Lilith, please feel free to practise on me ;)

[Lilith]

GG~When I seduce you love, it will not be for need of practice;) :D

[sadora]

I agree with most of you.. both is great. I actually love to be the suductress. In sutle ways. A body part I know they like accentuated, eye contact, a flirty attitude.

[xanne]

It is different, I like both, but have a preference to being the seducer.

To drive someone just wild with lust and desire for me...........makes me just wild for them too.

Being seduced is.......pure luxurious pleasure

[Dominatra]

OHHH definitely the seducer --- knowing that I can have that much power and control....and feeling someone turn to jelly in my hands...or er, maybe the other way around (wink), definitely a turn-on.

[Tango Seven]

I enjoy both, but I love my wife to seduce me.

[MissX]

Both!!! and then there's my all time fav of being the seducer but pretending to be the seducee....:p

[luv2please]

I think it depends on the mood at the time. I enjoy being seduced (my wife is kind of shy when it comes to this)but if I sense that she would like to be seduced, that will be what gives me the gratest pleasure.

[axe31]

i like strong women so i love it when i get seduse

[Murphy]

AHH, the fine art of seduction, Mostly I am the seducer, rarely the seductee(but i treasure those times), sometimes the seducer playing seductee, but most often lately the "lonely hunter"

[Eros]

Yeah..."lonely hunter" pretty much sums it up for me too. As far as the topic at hand tho. Being seduced just has to be one of the best things in the world..(other than sex and food) Nothing gets me more turned on than having a woman whisper what she wants to do to me in my ear, and then lead me to the bedroom and do it. I've also been the seducer on my fair share of occasions, but I have to be with someone who is very open to being seduced for it to be worth my time. Oh well, maybe it's me?..LOL

Eros

[Sugarsprinkles]

Would have to say being the seductress, because I have always, or almost always been the one to initiate sex with my husband. But considering he's lost interest and we haven't had sex in over 12 years, being seduced by him would be sheer heaven!! :O

[Murphy]

Sugarsprinkles-
Would you be open to a full-body massage seduction?

[Sugarsprinkles]

Have never cheated on my mate, in real life or online, but I'm intrigued. Must be honest and tell you there's a whole lot of body (unfortunately). Do tell me more. :eek:

[ASH]

i like both, but if forced to choose, i'd rather be seduced. it's great to have someone that interested in you, and it's fun, at least to me, to see how long i can hold out.

by the way, i loved oldfart's def. that was great.

[aax160]

There is a time and a place for everything!!!!!!

[Murphy]

Sugarsprinkles-
Would not like you to feel "cheated", but imagine strong, gentle hands starting at your toes, soothing every muscle, rubing pleasure into your tired aching feet.....
(pm me for more)