Unfortunately, nowadays chat rooms are a joke. most of what's in them are porn bots. at least the ones i used to frequent. you could try www.gothicpersonals.com. I've talked to a few nice people on there, but nothing ever came of it. no chat rooms, but you can e-mail and post an add for free.

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"BOY: On a hot summer night, would you offer your throat to the wolf with the red roses? GIRL: Will he offer me his mouth? BOY: Yes. GIRL: Will he offer me his teeth? BOY: Yes. GIRL: Will he offer me his jaws? BOY: Yes. GIRL: Will he offer me his hunger? BOY: Yes. GIRL: Again, will he offer me his hunger? BOY: Yes! GIRL: Yes. BOY: On a hot summer night, would you offer your throat to the wolf with the red roses? GIRL: Yes. BOY: I bet you say that to all the boys!" -Meatloaf