I've wondered but never had a place to ask before, about the difference between intercourse (vaginal) and blow-jobs.

Porns and stories make blow-jobs seem like a big deal so I'm curious why that is. Do they feel better than intercourse? I mean, I would think that a pussy would be softer and more pleasurable. I also think the roof of a mouth is kind of hard and not to mention teeth, so I was wondering if maybe it's the allure of the blow-job. Is it the thrill of having a woman down on her knees?

Or some women don't like to give blow-jobs, so maybe some guys really like bjs cuz previous lovers never wanted to give them.

My technique is to give a long, slow, deliberate bj. I start licking the balls and that little spot between the balls and anus then slowly work my way up the shaft teasing the head before I take it in my mouth. I go slow and start working up faster and faster.

Is this too detailed for this forum? I am rather new but it seems like the kind of place that would let me speak my mind.

I was an RPN (Nursing Assistant), so I'm not shy about much anymore.

Guys?

Sweet Chastity

BJ's can be a build up to greater sensitivity for intercourse, the action of the tongue on the head of the penis can be overwelming with a partner to eger to have you reach orgasm, while someone who enjoys giving BJ's can take a male to the extreme heights of sensitivity without making them cum, this is where the senistivity during intercourse gives heightened feeling , and thus adds to the pleasure, hopefully for all involved.

As to BJ's being better than intercourse, this would again greatly depend upon the techniques used in both acts of lovemaking.

If you wish I would gladly volunteer to assess YOUR techniques

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woman;really enjoys what she is doing.I had one; coworker-
woman;who was married but took immense pride in her ability to
make men respect the way she used her mouth.I had another
woman;who;did it mainly because;she thought;it was her duty.
You could tell that she;really;didn't enjoy doing it.Therefore it was
not enjoyable to me.I think whether;one;is better then the other;
depends;entirely upon if it is enjoyable to both parties! Irish

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Sweet Chastity,

I hope you didnt mind that comment.

I enjoy a good bj..but it doesn't form an adequate replacemet for intercourse. It is very useful for foreplay.

Of course when you are being impulsive..a bj is much easier than trying to get a quickie in.

Don't worry about too much detail! Your technique worked quite well and I was only reading it!

I think it is difficult to compare the two.

Oral sex and be much more detailed and specific. A wonderful mouth, tongue, and hands used together can provide a sensational feeling.

Have you ever had the pleasure of receiving oral sex from your partner or a stranger on the street??? Remember the feeling of their tongue as it first began to slide between your lips and the feeling when the tip just grazed over your clit? Or when one finger slips inside you as your partner nibbles intently on your clit.

Hope that helps

"I also think the roof of a mouth is kind of hard and not to mention teeth"


There is generally more sensation with a blow job than with intercourse. I actually prefer it when Mrs.D uses some teeth. Everybodies heard the old saying "make it hurt so good".

Thanks for the replies. No Nutworld, I don't mind the comment.

I actually do enjoy blow-jobs. I had a guy take me through that technique which works best with a guy sitting just at the edge of the bed leaning back on his elbows so he can watch. I like seeing how much fun my partner is having. It's nice having a guy's input rather than just grunts and groans.

If I spend the night I like to wake up a guy with a blow-job. It usually produces the best cuddles afterwards! I've also given a blow-job on the highway (I wasn't driving). They can be nice easy quickies. Plus I like targeting sensitive areas of his tool with my tongue.

I actually prefer a 69er to just recieving oral sex. Call me wierd.

Sweet Chastity

imagines waking up to a bj....

HMMMMMMMMMM yess!!!




I'd love to wake up to that anyday!

While 69 isnt my favorite I dont object to it.. I just prefer being able to concentrate all my efforts into giving my partner pleasure..letting them get satisfied before getting my own. But thats just the way I prefer.

nutworld---During one of my; marital-spats;when I wasn't living
at home;I was staying with a buddies exwife(OKd;first;with him)
and she used to wake me; every morning;with a BJ!Beats the hell
out of an alarm clock!Makes you look forward to waking up for
work!Thought you would enjoy thinking about that. Irish
P.S.I just unsubscribed from this thread by mistake!Hope that I
can correct it!

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Irish,
Oh yeah you bet I'd like that.


I don't get any morning sex, as thats not anything that my wife is into.

I had an ex that spoiled me I guess. She absolutly loved giving bj's, and her technique was quite invigorating!! Anytime, almost anyplace....and of course I wouldnt ever say no!

I'm not too much into the teeth action though that Diver seems to prefer. Either I'm way too sensitive, or when its been done to me it was not done correctly.

hmmmm yet another thing to ponder.

nutworld---I'm writing this secretly!Even if we were separated at
the time;my wife would be pissed if she knew about it.women
must be related to elephants because neither ever forgets;even
though it was ;years ;ago.I just wanted to tell you that it's even
more enjoyable when it is done by suprise! Irish
P.S.I can understand it.I would be"Pissed Off"if some other guy
had eaten her.When the shoe is on the other foot;somehow;it;
doesn't bother you as much!

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It's hard to quantify the difference. I guess oral is more acute...more intense. Personally, If I had to choose, I would tend to lean a bit more toward intercourse. While the feeling is not as intense as a bj, it's no less desireable. And, there's this feeling of warm, moistness, and (dare I say) comfort along the entire length of my penis that I experience with intercourse. Plus, the knowledge that I'm inside my loved one and we are joined as one is just mind-blowing (no pun intended).

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Damn there are so many answers for this question.It all depends on the mood,where you guys are at,how long its been,how your feeling at the time as well as her.Some places are just so perfect to recieve blowjobs such as movie theaters,rides,driving a car,and many other places

i think that a pussy is more enjoyable and anal is absolute heaven. The Bj's were always for quickies in the car . I prefer to have a slow and comfortable screw

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