Does it matter ? as long as someone does.... I come sometimes and he does sometimes and we both do a lot... but it doesn't matter whose first or sometimes together... sometimes I am first, middle and last! ....lol

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Jackie

I always try to get her to cum first.. I like to finger her for awhile and get her to cum that way atleast once, after that she climbs on top of me and rides me till she cums, I try to get her to cum once or twice then we cum together... It's very Intense and Erotic for us!!
( you know you gotta love those climax control condoms)

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when I first started having sex I did and we would just keep goibng, then she did a little while later

I used to be able to cum 3 or 4 times a night, now im lucky if i can do 2, I always do 1. She cums 3 or 4 or 5 times before i do now...

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I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain.

That's pretty much how it goes around here too ,although occasionally I'll get woken with a blowjob and not be expected to reciprocate. She usually gets her turn later in the day though,

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The Wombat : eats roots and leaves.

My SO tends to cum first....but always makes sure I follow

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"Seize the moment. Remember all those women on the 'Titanic' who waved off the dessert cart."~Erma Bombeck

As I'm a lesbian trapped in a man's body she does.

I don't bother keeping track of time or the amount of orgasms my partners have as that takes concentration away from them. I beleive in giving your undivided attention to your partner and just tuning out the outside world no matter where you happen to be. (can also get you into trouble....) Anyways, mutual orgasm is also a wonder when it can be acheived but I have only a few experiences with this one as none of my "relationships" were actually the long term typed ones in the past few yrs. The only tip I can give here is to keep your body under control and to maximize your partners pleasure at any chance you get. Errogenous zones are relatively easy to find on any woman and thus you can assure her pleasure and of course your own. Excellent lovers are made not born, contrary to most peoples opinion.

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Life is Chaos,
Chaos is life,
The Heartless One

when we have oral sex, she is afraid to cum first, don't ask me why. Most of the time she gets me to cum first. She has been close a few times.

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I'm so romantic, I should marry myself.

I've found as the years roll on (Ahem!) my partner tends to cum first ...... not sure if it's age, experience, age...... LOL!

My current lady says cumming first is pretty new to her.. and she loves it! Must say, I do too!!

DM

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The selfish, they're all standing in line
Faithing and hoping to buy themselves time
Me, I figure as each breath goes by
I only own my mind

bump

in my bed!!!

Like to start with a little back-and-forth foreplay, then I concentrate on her using my lips and tongue which always brings her to a brainshattering orgasm. Next, she goes down on me until I have an earth shattering orgasm into her mouth. Afterwards, we cuddle and touch for a spell, then I go back down on her until she reaches another intense orgasm, by which time I am almost always hard again...we can then go at it in a variety of positions for quite some time since I already came once!!!

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I wish all the ladies were pies on the shelf...and I was the baker because I'd eat them all myself.
I wish all the ladies were potholes in the road...and I was a dumptruck because I'd fill them with my load.

Who's on first and I don't know is on 2nd base.

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Half of a set :halo:

I like to spend some tongue time on my lady and letting her cum first.

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wine is not the only thing that gets better with age...

Lately I cum first and last

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The practice of putting women on pedestals began to die out when it was discovered that they could give orders better from there.~ Betty Grable

If I wanted your opinion, I'd remove the duct tape and ask you for it.~ Me
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With the ex, it always depended on our mood....sometimes me first and sometimes him first.....i really liked when he came first because by the time he got me off, he was ready again....and that one always lasted a loooooonnnnnnngggggg time....*sighs at fond memories*

The last S/O I had it was a trade off.