11-06-2005, 05:00 PM
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Originally Posted by Lilith
My understanding is that it really fluctuates from person to person. I usually had sex around 4-6 weeks after and it was good, but I was so exhausted.
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Well ............. right after running a Marathon ................ anybody would be exhauted.
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11-13-2005, 06:02 AM
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Originally Posted by lonelyarmywife
But let me just tell you that at that point, sex is the last thing on your mind. Guys have no comprehension of the physical trauma that women go through while giving birth. IT HURTS, before, during and for a long time after.
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I think I got the wrong signals a few weeks after the birth of our first child. We were messing around (this is a long time ago so I am not quite sure of the circumstance) anyway, she was under the bed clothes I was on top so there were a few blankets in between. Then she changed her mind while I had got a massive hard. so I stopped in my tracks, and somehow it may have beed a good thing she said no. Because motionless I laid on her and tried to surpress an orgasm (and failed - so tried to hide it). The thing about it, that I remember most about it, that in respect for her, I felt incredibly guilty for having the orgasm. I don't think she new.
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11-13-2005, 05:52 PM
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I had to wait 15 years after birth before I had sex.
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11-14-2005, 06:52 AM
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Just me.
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LOL. Actually, I think most of us had to be born first.
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12-13-2005, 11:06 PM
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I couldnt wait after having my first....thus having Irish Twins....42 weeks apart
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12-14-2005, 07:55 AM
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My wife and I have 3 kids, all grown now, and I remember we waited about 2 or 3 weeks after until we resumed activity and she wanted it doggie style the first time. I must say that I didn'r fight her on this, lol. I think the decrease in sex drive after birth comes from a lot of factors most of which are related to exhaustion. If there is a great deal of sharing of responsibility then sex becomes great again. Barring some type of trauma during birth of course or whether there have been medical complications. You see, Ms Pussy, it is very complicated. Whenever physical, medical, and emotional concerns come into play it is very tricky. If love and desire existed before the birth then love and desire will be there after the birth. Good luck to you and your man and may you be fulfilled in all your dreams for your child.
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12-15-2005, 10:48 AM
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ThePower of Chinese Woman
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you guys are wonderful. I am reading all of these threads and memoried them all.
my heart to those who are still undergo with it.
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12-16-2005, 04:05 AM
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Mrs FussyPucker
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ChinesePussy are you expecting, or are you just curious? I remember you saying you planned to have children fairly soon....
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12-16-2005, 09:29 AM
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yah I am planning. But my regular period is hard for m to plan, i might need to go to see a doctor for that.
my period is irregular, never know when can I get pregnant
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Originally Posted by Loulabelle
ChinesePussy are you expecting, or are you just curious? I remember you saying you planned to have children fairly soon....
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In other countries like Far East Asia women are still held in LOWER esteem BUT in China, it’s a different story. Chinese women are much more aggressive and outspoken and held in Higher esteem.” I love Communist that provides males and females Equality and WOMEN’S Rights in China.
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12-17-2005, 06:31 AM
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Mrs FussyPucker
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Good for you CP!
I hope it all works out well for you....
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