i have to admit that it is the whole guy that matters. imagine giving a guy with a beautiful cock a blow job, looking up and seeing some guy that resembled a baboon's arse. YUCK!!!!!!

Yeah, I think as long as it's a healthy penis, it's a beautiful one especially when it's on the man you love.

Now if it's on a man you want to ride, then if the package is nice then the cock is too. So it really is a whole package thing.

My last boyfriend had a 2" penis. Soft it was just a head sticking out, so it kinda looked funny (but I never, ever laughed or even mentioned it, not even when we broke up, that's what God gave him and who am I to question God). It never bothered me until he started playing some serious head games and pulling other sick shit (I use that word for a reason) on me. Then him (the whole package) was just unattractive.

Sweet Chastity

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Thanks for the welcome.

Actually I think he was just really messed up. He says (but how much can we really believe what someone says) that his first g/f got him to do a bunch of stuff (I won't go into details) and I think that messed him up. Made him think sex (before marriage, I wonder what he thought about marital sex) was immoral and sinful. He had a sex therapist, but she didn't tell him sex was a sin so he stopped going.

But after a while he tried getting me into the crap he said she made him do and he wasn't into and I refused cuz some of it was just plain gross and unhealthy (and I'm very open-minded about sex). So I'm not sure how much he wants to believe is the girl's fault. I think he had trouble accepting responsibility for his actions (cuz he was an instigater).

I don't judge him and I never made him think he was inferiour to other men, cuz that's plain wrong. We all have parts of our bodies we like/dislike and I think it's who's inside that really counts. But a nice butt goes a long way!

Anyway, thanks again for the welcome.
Sweet Chastity

Sounds like it was definitely an interesting and educational relationship.

I know I an pretyy open about sex as well, but have had a few relationships where they wanted to do things that I thought was just too out there. No need for details I think. But oh well.

I also feel that you learn something about yourself from each relationship you are in. Some good and some bad. It is all on how you look at it and then use that knowledge later.

Well, I hope you enjoy and feel free to chat or anything else if you so desire.

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You are with a pretty good bunch of people her. You can read around a little and get to know the different characters in the family. Most of the regulars will offer you an ear for listening… a cock or tit to look at… let you look deeply into our shallow minds (made for quick viewing)… share our profound philosophies… or joke about anything (as most of us are jokers at heart anyway)!

So you can put issues aside, clear your head and ENJOY with us!!

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I have to say I am a bit of a size queen and an attractive cock to me is clean,smooth and Big, with a nice pair of balls. Although I wouldnt mind too much if the guy was small or average. It is a nice surprise when you are with a guy for the first time and you find out he's got a big one.A perfect size is 8 inches long and about 6 inches around. of course the fact he's a nice guy is the most important thing.

Me sitting on it!!!!!!!


Sorry..been wanting to say that since this thread started!!!

Must be the wine again...lol...

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Size or shape isn't important to me. Sure seeing a big penis can be a turn on, but it's the guy that matters. If he turns me on it doesn't worry me what his cock looks like. It's what he does with it that's important.

Sometimes I think I would settle for CLEAN!!!
Besides that, I agree it is who it is attached to that is most important.

Wickedly,

WW

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Did his question ask about the attatched man ? No the penis YES. if it is near me and clean, Ill do all my naughty needs and crave it`s loving seed!!!

its the way it reacts when you touch it
how his whole body quivers whe you take it
in your mouth the taste of him the power
you feel as you control his pleasure and
the feel of him as he pulses down your
throat

seantom---I think;what everyone means by who it is attached to;
is that ;I'm hetrosexual and I have been with some women;that
were a;walking wet dream;body wise;but their personality was
so bad;that I wouldn't have anything to do with them ;again.Sex
should be an enjoyable experience;by both parties!When a person thinks that they're a gift;it is not enjoyable! Irish
P.S.I could be wrong but that's my feelings.

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OK, I know the question was directed to the ladies, but being a cockwatcher I can't resist!

While I agree, a decent looking bloke on the receiving end is good, I've been with some really ugly blokes with really fine dicks. I find variety a turn on, I like them big or small, veiny or smooth. Though trimmed pubes is good it's not essential. I'm not over keen on cut cocks, I'd rather have them as nature intended. Most of all, it's gotta taste good!