05-22-2002, 05:18 PM
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dragon mane
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Join Date: Mar 2002
Location: uk manchester
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truth
how truthful are you
i allways considerd my self truthful
but before i came out i lied to my self
and others i even would sleep around
just to prove my so called manhood
now i allways quest to be honest with my self
Quote:
if your not true to your self you can't be true to others
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05-22-2002, 06:56 PM
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yet seldom member
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Join Date: Mar 2002
Location: below the whitesausage equator
Posts: 1,853
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honesty - the better strategy on far sight. I have made good experience with it.
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05-22-2002, 07:09 PM
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Registered User
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Join Date: May 2001
Location: Rochester N.H.
Posts: 4,134
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I always try to be honest and speak the way that;I feel about things.Some people might not agree with my feelings;and I might not agree with theirs.That's what makes the world go around and
it doesn't make anyone wrong.I would rather that; I and they;
knew;where each other stood.That way you don't have;wrong
impressions. Irish
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(Harley Davidson & the Marlboro Man)
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05-22-2002, 07:20 PM
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Just me.
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Join Date: May 2002
Location: West central Illinois
Posts: 590,002
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I agree with all of you ... honesty is the best approach to life. It's fun to have fun and to fantasize ... as long as you know that's what it is that you're having.
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05-22-2002, 08:19 PM
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Pixie Mistress
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Join Date: Jan 2002
Location: Boston
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I guess I could say it's been a long, hard journey for me in that area. for a while, i wasn't truthful with others, or worse, myself. i just chalked things up to "experience" it took a lot of insight to realize my actions sometimes hurt others, and always hurt myself in the end -- if i would just face them. I could never bring myself to admit to my ex-boyfriend that I cheated on him, because it took me so long just to even face the truth myself, that i was unfaithful. i hope someday, i'll come to a place where i will be able to admit it -- it will be a burden lifted i've carried for years.
What they don't know WILL hurt them -- because in some way, it changes you, and will change everything forever.
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and between my teeth you breathe
and through my eyes you live
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05-22-2002, 10:59 PM
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Living Loving n Laughing
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Join Date: Dec 2001
Location: Georgia
Posts: 329
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I consider my honest about the big things but i admit i have lied to myself and others when i thought that the truth might not be the best policy at that precise moment.
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:3: Life is just one Fucking thing after another..
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05-22-2002, 11:09 PM
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Gone with the Wind
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Join Date: Jan 2002
Location: some place new, and interesting
Posts: 862
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I HAVE to live a lie where my employers are concerned!
The Sisters have no idea about what I do in my personal life.
This has made me more open and honest in other areas of my life.
WW
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"I wondered, am I a lesbian, am I straight, or bisexual? Then I realized that I am just a slut.
So where's MY parade?"
---Margaret Cho
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05-23-2002, 10:45 AM
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Name says it all ;)
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Join Date: May 2002
Location: AR
Posts: 375
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Some things are worth hiding like at the workplace, but all honesty is the best policy when talking to friends, mates etc. I wouldnt want my partner lying to me all the time, but even then, there's things that should be kept to yourself.
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05-23-2002, 07:23 PM
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Registered User
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Join Date: Feb 2002
Location: Launceston , Tasmania, Australia
Posts: 1,903
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I was a mess as a teenager and in my twenties. I lived a life of lies to cover up deficiencies real and imagined. I got the help I needed and since then have been truthful but that causes its own problems at times. Still I am now comfortable and able to live a life where I like myself.
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05-23-2002, 07:50 PM
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It takes two to tango!
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Join Date: Apr 2002
Location: Northern Europe
Posts: 169
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I try to be as truthful as possible. I find if you are dishonest you get caught out in the long run.
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05-23-2002, 09:24 PM
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♦*♥Moderatrix♥*♦
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Join Date: Nov 2001
Location: on top of it all
Posts: 50,566
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I do what is necessary... lie to save someone's feelings, or to get out of a jam, but I am honest as far as who I am and how I feel.
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05-24-2002, 05:47 AM
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Horny Devil
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Join Date: Feb 2002
Location: Australia
Posts: 3,495
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i couldn't lie straight in bed
seriously though, i was brought up to always tell the truth and i try to follow that, but sometimes it's just better if i fudge a little
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The sun is gone, but I have a light - Kurt Cobain
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05-27-2002, 11:36 PM
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Member
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Join Date: May 2002
Location: dream land
Posts: 37
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I am a truthful person. I have told a few lies in my time, but they were to protect someones feelings or to keep my parents from knowing things they wouldn't approve of.I have had some close friends that turned out to be constant liars so I slowly cooled the friendship.I think truth and trust are a vaulable asset in any relationship and if it's not there neither am I.
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05-28-2002, 12:25 AM
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Registered User
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Join Date: Aug 2001
Location: North Australia
Posts: 17,686
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Don't have the memory to be a good liar.
Simple self-preservation.
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