I know..not another one..but. Those of you that have been unfortunate to get divorced, is it typical for the other person to constately mess with your minds?? My ex-wife has been a real pain in the ass. One day we get along great, the next day she asking if she can get back with me..and then i get a letter saying that she has given up on men altogether since all we do is use women. I have never said i would take her back, when she asked me i said you just got your freedom from me..why would you want to get back together..She found out that i have been seeing another lady, but like i told her i waited until we were divorced before i was seeing others. Now she puts this major guilt trip on me, saying she isnt sure how she will make ends meet...blahblahblah..I am just curious as to whether or not this is typical or if i cant even get divorced and have peace???