I have been seeing this guy for a few weeks/months now. He satisfies me in all ways, emotinal, physical,sexual. the only problem is that he is still living with his wife. He says that he wants to leave her but does not have the inner strength yet to do it. I know how hard it is to leave your marrage...i did 4 years ago. We have had long talks about everything and have already told each other how we feel. I have fallen inlove with him and he with me. It is just hard to deal with. I cant really talk to any friends about it because they see it as wrong(which yes it is). I cant spend as much time with him as I want because his wife is a control freak and needs to know where he is at all times. Plus the times that she is not there to control him he has his 5yr and I have my 5yr. I really want this to work out but i dont want to get hurt if ends up not leaving her. I have fallen head over heals for him.

Confused and in love

Buffy