08-05-2003, 11:59 AM
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Vampyre/ Knight
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Join Date: Aug 2001
Location: The Darkness that encompasses the mind just before
Posts: 3,828
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Well who said we were whining and acting like introverts or with no balls. Most nice guys tend to be shy. And when they do go after something, they will go full force.
But then you get the nice guy that is socialable, and is not an introvert. But he hears someone say something about his appearance, and well there goes his self-esteem.
Now anyone who knows me here, knows that I am not an introvert. But you get comments like the ones here, makes you wonder. Because what I get from these comments is something negative. That unless you are forceful you won't get what you desire. And that you have to be forceful and a nice guy to be atrracted by some people. And to me, that is not what I see and hear.
There are a select few nice guys out there that can be what you expect. But on average not all nice guys are. Most are rather quiet and don't get involved, not because they are a "Victim" but because they are tired of getting hurt by the ones they want and desire. They get tired of the "I just want to be friends," or "Your like a brother to me." Well you know if I wanted that kind of a relationship, that is what I would look for and get.
So next time you are at a party and see someone standing or sitting in a corner ponder this. That might be the nice guy your thinking about or looking for. And give him the chance that he deserves, without thinking that he is a victim or doesn't have the balls to come talk to you.
And think about this too.... Sometimes the nice guy is put off by the beautiful people of society. Kinda makes us nervous, why you might ask, because they tend to think the same way about all nice guys, or they lump people into groups based on their preceptions.
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