Ok im new here pretty much, often dont visit I know. But Im usually pretty busy.

Im 18 and in some dilemmas here basically. Im a virgin and have only dated like 3 girls in my past and currently with a great girl now. My problem is basically I am a very confused person right now in my life. Im in no rush to become an ex-virgin, it really doesnt bug me much, but in a weirder note, every girl ive dated has left me within 4 months to go out and lose theirs.

So I guess my question is, is it me? Is this my fault or something? I mean it seems that because Im not hurrying the sex part ( dont get me wrong, i wouldnt mind it, just in no hurry), that they want to leave me. Currently the girl Im with, I fear she's losing intrest in me and getting ready to be my 4th failure.

Im just wondering what I should do if anyone has advice, Id greatly appreciate it.

And btw, I stumbled upon this place by accident one day looking for some online horror stories lol. But I found this is an alright place here and look foward to talking to whomever wishes to.