Asking is good, but don't ask us, ask him. What is really good for me is a partner dedicated to the experience, for both to enjoy. I like a woman who offers advice, tries wild stuff, and suprises me. The best though is when she tells me what she wants. Thats me though, and the best advice I have is play around, find what turns him on, and then look for more. (but still use what you learned)

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I'm like a super hero, but with no powers or motivation.