You go, girl! Taking a stand is a good start. You put the ball in his court. Just don't go back unless he shows that he will follow through with what he says he will.

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I'm proud of you, Hon. It must've been a tough step to take. But one way or the other, I think you did the right thing for you. Stick to your guns, if he keeps calling without taking real steps I think you're right, you may have to stop answering the phone.

But don't treat it like you're giving him tests or playing games. Don't say "I love you" because you don't want to say it....not becuase you want to drop hints. This isn't a time for hinting...it's a time for telling him things straight out.

Glad you're finding your way through the fog.

good girl. i know it hurts and i know it's hard, but there's no reason you shouldn't be his first choice/priority. if he doesn't come around, someone who deserves you will. and if he does...you can be confident in your decision and that he loves you. *big hugs* you're strong and you're special. hang in there honey.

Tread carefully..Cheaters always cheat.

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There are exceptions to every rule!While it is true in MOST cases,
that cheaters always cheat.I have,personally,known of,at least,3
(three)cases where people cheated years ago & have NEVER
cheated since.(unless you call masturbation cheating!) Irish

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I think the point is, if this guy is cheating on his wife for her, and not even leaving the wife for her, he's likely not in it for love. He's in it for satisfaction- and he's getting it on both ends.

In other words, honey, he's double dipping the stick.

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