38 and a cyber virgin.

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Madam, if you were my wife, I would take it.

I generally don't mind being PMed for an "off to the side" private chat about some topic -- ANY topic -- but these guys who buzz me for a PM and the first thing they say is a/s/l REALLY irritates me. My name should be enough to give a strong educated guess on my sex. What the heck is the difference where I am located??? Age might matter, but getting to know me on some level would tell you more at the emotional age I act upon, rather than my physical age.

I was having cyber sex long before almost anybody else was. I started in 1986! I enjoy it, but it's NOT like the real thing at all. I would much rather have a written story that I can come back to later, or one I wrote and have multiple people enjoy it than just one.

Never really liked the idea of the cyber, tried it only one time, and well it wasn't that fun. I have a pretty good imagination so why not just please myself and not have to worry about distracting myself by typing. The only time I did cyber was with an ex-girlfriend, and she wasn't all that imaginative. I will say though that if I had to cyber it would be with someone I have a history with (even if just an online history). I guess I look at cyber as a way to scratch the itch of satisfying someone else, cause I can satisfy myself without it. If you don't know the person, why are you that interested in pleasing them? Well I've said to much.

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I'm definitely the exception to what's been posted. Back when I cybered a lot, I didn't want to get to know anybody. If I did end up having conversations w/some of the people, we usually ended up being on line friends (still have some such friends I talk w/on line daily), and once we started to get to know each other, I didn't want to cyber w/them anymore. But my reasons for doing such were rather unique or, let's say, unusual circumstances. Ironically, in spite of the fact that I am in a LDR with my fiance, we don't have cyber sex; we just IM each other.

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Being relativly new to cyber my experiences have been somewhat limited. However, I will only cyber with someone that I am totally comfortable with... someone that I have gotten to know and care about. - and when we are done, we can have a cig and talk about our day !

I DON"T like being in chat and getting a PM that is too direct from someone that I do not know... that just annoys me to no end. Especially if it is from another woman... I have found that women are more forward than the men are... and don't take no for an answer so I just put them on ignore...

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Cheyanne~ some of those "women" are men

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Oh i see it is always the man's fault

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Isn't it always

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And your point is...?

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There was a time.... not too terribly long ago............................................... .................................................. ............... opps.. sorry.. got lost in the memory... excuse me... as I was about to say...

There was a time... not long ago.. that I cyber'd regularly. It was something that I enjoyed doing and was (for a time) a diversion from my typical ho-hum masturbation routine. I was not one who made a practice of cyber'in with complete strangers, tho I did do that from time to time.

Instead.. for me.. I first had to feel some sort of connection with the man that I chose to have fun with. NO.. not love.. or anything like it... but an attraction... a spark...

I haven't cyber'd in months... actually I can't even remember the last time. I came (excuse the pun) to realize, that altho cyber was a nice way to enjoy masturbation it left me rather empty. I began utilizing the phone instead... something that altho is still only another form of masturbation excites my senses more... there is just something about the sound of a man breathing heavy that gets me going

Cyber is foreplay.....

The phone call is exploring all the possibilites......

The meeting is penetration...........

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I guess being the trusting person that I am when someone tells me their gender, I believe them... I can be somehwhat gullable at time... lol

That is why I stick with who I have gotten to know in chat...

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Jenna... I will heavy breathe for you anytime... Phone sex does SO much more for me than cyber

Although I have been told I tend to grunt a little more as I umm... finish...

As for cyber... I have fun with it... if there is a spark I might just push things... it doesnt have to be with someone I know, but its nice to know what someone likes and dislikes....

This is how I feel about it.........I HAVE to at the very least be familiar with the person, have chatted with (non-cyber) at least a few times prior to even thinking about cybering with them.

I think a "drive-by" type cyber would leave me feeling quite empty and possibly even "used". But that's just me..........

And then there are the few I would absolutely LOVE the chance to cyber with but haven't had any indication that the other person even thinks about me "that way."

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