rabbit~ do we have to invite her???

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Having had some wonderful MFM encounters, I have noticed that most men are VERY paranoid about any kind of contact with the other male!
It seems like any touching between them is a sign of being "gay"!
During one encounter, that I told about in another thread, the two men I was with were so paranoid that it ruined the entire experience for me!
Women, in the FFM experiences I have had, even when the other woman was NOT bi, are much more at ease in touching each other while sharing a man... and that includes the women who knew I was bi.

WW

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I have had the good fortune to have been part of a M-F-M experience with a good friend & her husband. As several people have commented, I did feel a bit dubious about even Seeing another guy nude, never mind maybe having to touch him; like Lixychick and her hubby though, it was a totally spontaneous thing, and as both of us (guys) were totally into my friends' pleasure, if we did touch each other we didn't give it a (negative) thought.
In fact, we all liked it SO much, we did it again a few weeks later, but planned this time - and it was even better 2nd time around!

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I have never found myself in a threesome.. MFM or FMF altho both are every active scenarios in my fantasies.. Altho I think I would like to experience one.. I am not sure I could actually follow thru if the opportunity revealed itself.

A FMF threesome would be my ultimate fantasy. Unfortunately all the women I've ever been with have been resistant to the idea.

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It's funny this question was here, I'd thought of posting it myself. My gf and I were playing with pics and I thought one of this particular senario would be a turn on for her. Geeeez it went over like a boiled egg fart in a crowded sunday school class. I see 3somes as a couple extending an invitation to a third to extend their fantasies and either partner should consider the fantasies of their mate. Obviously NOT a common thought with everybody. I'll probably never get in the situation but I'm interested in pleasing my mate.... that's just old fashioned me I guess.

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This sounds good, I would like to do it and am not concerned about sex with another guy, as i have done it before. a GF of mine did it once with two guys mainly for them but it turned her on 100%

Can the ladies explain why MM is so horny for them?

Wildeye

MrX and I have talked about this lots, he wants a ffm before he thinks about my mmf. MM is such a turn on (for me)as it is two guys wanting you...what fun,...if only I could clone MrX....

but then when I think about it ffmm would be good too, cause female bodies are very sensual and the thought of sharing 2 men between us would be so good...how on earth do you meet people with the same thoughts in your area?

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I have been in both situations (FFM and MMF) and there are a couple of important points to remember

1) Everyone should have clear understanding of what's expected. If a couple is bringing in a third, everyone needs to know if emotional committment is expected or to be avioded, etc. This can keep a committed relationship from getting into trouble, and can keep people from getting emotionally hurt

2) Everyone should be sure that they are staying within their comfort level. An ex-boyfriend of mine let me indulge in a threesome with him and a friend of mine, but he was never very comfortable with the idea, and it ended up being a breaker for our relationship.

So, to answer your questions, yes I would always be open to any suggestion of a threesome, but my personal preferences tend to go that way. Would I like to see two guys play around in the threesome? If they thought it was exciting, absolutely it would be a turn-on for me. If the guys were at all squeamish with the idea, then no, because it would ruin the experience for everyone.

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Thank you, sir, may I have another?

We have discussed it before and I couldn't see someone else fucking my girl. It is a great fantasy, but I couldn't handle that.

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I'm so romantic, I should marry myself.

We have done these things and found it much easier and erotic than we imagined.

I would love to see my Lady with another man, and maybe even be part of the game. I love for her to tell me about partying with guys, and I know she has a fantasy about having sex with a man with a real large cock. I dont think she would ever let me watch or join. She has told me that it would be ok with ffm threesome, but how do we find the right girl?:redghost:

I would like to see my wife in action with someone other than me - if I was able to be there and participate - I wouldn't be comfortable doing anything sexual with the other guy, just the two of us, but if I was inside her and he was going down on her - I could probably handle something like that... sounds very erotic -

Still, inviting another woman would be very hot, too!

It boils down to pleasing her and accepting the gift!

I would love to try a double pen of a woman. I wonder what it feels like while both of us are moving around in her? I even think having the balls slap together would be a turn on.

I've never done anything like this and it's a big fantasy of mine. Particularly mfm, but also ffm.

However, the reality may be entirely different as it is rare for me to meet even one person I'm attracted enough to to want to have sex with, let alone two at the same point in my life, let alone two who were both open to the idea!

If I did though, I'd be happy for them to touch if they wanted to or not, if they didn't. I would leave it up to them, but I wouldn't want any kind of tension between them. In any sexual situation, tension spells trouble!

Of course what would be perfect, is if I could somehow replicate one person into two for the evening! But somehow, I don't see that happening . . . lol

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