Have you ever had an extended time when your partner was unable to have sex? How did you handle it? How did they handle it?

Any ideas on how solo sex with a partner can be intimate?

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Things kind of had to go hand to mouth for awhile.

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watching the other masturbate...or mastubating them yourself

and of course there's oral. about a week or so after my c-sec's, i felt ok enough to get comfy on the bed and he'd just fuck my mouth. carfully. slowly. and oh so gently so i didn't get jiggled around. he'd often end up jerking off toward the end cause the need to go fast overwhelmed but it was always fun. and athough i'd get that please-please-please-fill-me-now ache on occasion, i found i loved it even if i didn't (or wasn't allowed to ) cum. so i guess i handled it just fine

and i think my partner handled it pretty well, too.

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I'm tempted to answer YES and add that the extended time is called "Marriage" ! issed:

But I fear if I did I would get or at least



Sometimes a man has to just take matters into his own hands......


So I guess I can't add any really good ideas.....

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Unfortunately I've had to do the "no sex" ordered by the doctor on several different occasions in the past 5 years or so. Several of them being 6 weeks at a time. one time after a major surgery and not being allowed to have sex I gave him oral and he kissed all over me. It was very nice.

You know kind of like when you were just dating someone and kissing and kissing that felt so good????

Then of course after I had the baby had to wait 6 weeks....but that was fine with me...HAHAHA the baby was birth control herself! But we had the calender marked for 6 weeks exactly and had a good ol' time.

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I've gone through a Dr ordered dry spell. Mrs. Aqua took some special pics for me and would let me do some light groping until she was able to climb back in the saddle.

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I could not have sex for about two weeks after my vasecotmy reversal. Sometimes I would wake up in the middle of the night and she would be petting the kitty with much vigor.

I was in so much pain that sex was kind of far from my mind but here little secret thing in the darkness, when she thought I was asleep. That got me right back into action.

Pretty much all of the above. Slowly carefully using your imagination, there are hands, mouth, feet, household objects, the contents of the fruit bowl, but most of all lots of hugging and reassuring

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As I've said before when my wife was pregnant we weren't able to have sex from the time we found out untill six weeks after the birth. So it was nearly nine months. It sucked. She wasn't even allowed to have orgasms because of their affect on the cervix. So we together as a couple didn't do anything. I didn't want to go to her for blow jobs if I couldn't reciprocate. We abstained from making out because that would only lead to her getting hot and bothered with no way of release and a lot of time before going into the hospital she was already arroused a lot of the time and it seemed cruel to me to increase that arousal in any way. To be honest we cheated a few times either her giving me oral or very quick anal, but I always felt bad afterwards for leaving her high and dry so it just became easier to masturbate alone. I felt no need to make her feel any worse about her inability to take care of my needs.