Live Chat

Go Back   Pixies Place Forums > Sex Talk > General Chat
User Name
Password


Reply
 
Thread Tools Search this Thread Rate Thread Display Modes
  #1  
Old 03-31-2006, 03:43 AM
dm383's Avatar
dm383 dm383 is offline
Pixies Horse Widower
 
Join Date: Jul 2002
Location: Scotland
Posts: 9,483
Send a message via ICQ to dm383
"Passing" Thoughts

Hey everybody.

Later today, I'm going to the funeral service of a man who passed away in the early-morning hours of tuesday.

He was 6 weeks shy of his 44th birthday, two months younger than me.

He has a 13-yr old daughter - she's 6-months older than MY daughter.

He smoked 40 cigs a day from about 9 years of age - diagnosed with lung and liver cancer on Halloween last year.... my daughters birthday. One of the reasons I gave up smoking - the other being my daughter.

He was a simple man, but wanted for nothing.

He had the love of his wife and daughter.

He was out with frineds EVERY day of the week - a social life to rival anyone's.

He was generous to a fault, sometimes to his own detriment.





















He suffered from Schizophrenia since he was 13 years old, although had been well for a number of years.

He never once, in the 5 years I knew him, lost his temper, complained, or even raised his voice.

He was my patient.

He was my friend.

I will miss him.

DM
__________________
The selfish, they're all standing in line
Faithing and hoping to buy themselves time
Me, I figure as each breath goes by
I only own my mind

Last edited by dm383 : 03-31-2006 at 03:48 AM. Reason: Spelling
Reply With Quote
  #2  
Old 03-31-2006, 05:40 AM
Lilith's Avatar
Lilith Lilith is offline
♦*♥Moderatrix♥*♦
 
Join Date: Nov 2001
Location: on top of it all
Posts: 50,568
Send a message via Yahoo to Lilith
I'm sorry for the loss of your friend.
__________________

The practice of putting women on pedestals began to die out when it was discovered that they could give orders better from there.~ Betty Grable

If I wanted your opinion, I'd remove the duct tape and ask you for it.~ Me
<~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~>
One man's dream is another man's nightmare~~~~> §¤ Lilith ¤§

~>My Scribbles<~
==>Gone Shopping<== ~Just a Quickie~ *~A Celebration Vacation~* ~Surprises~ Sleeping With the Window Open
What Did You Do Today? Self Defense Class ~Short Sweet Snippets~ § Summer Spin § Story Challenge Submission Pajamas
Reply With Quote
  #3  
Old 03-31-2006, 05:42 AM
LixyChick's Avatar
LixyChick LixyChick is offline
Everybody Stretch!
 
Join Date: Aug 2002
Location: Pa. USA
Posts: 11,637
(((((((((((((((((dm))))))))))))))))))

Your friend sounds like a wonderful man who left his heartprint in your life. That's all we mortals can ever really hope for.

I send my sympathy for your loss and the hug to let you know I feel your pain. I hope the mourning is swift and the good memories take it's place for you and his family and other friends real soon!

PM me if you need to talk babe...
__________________
Minds are like parachutes. They only work when they are open.

~Thomas Dewar~
Reply With Quote
  #4  
Old 03-31-2006, 06:32 AM
jbh3's Avatar
jbh3 jbh3 is offline
MSGME!
 
Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: Baltimore
Posts: 3,733
My condolences to you and a thank you for the work that you do.
Reply With Quote
  #5  
Old 03-31-2006, 07:58 AM
moose's Avatar
moose moose is offline
Larger Than Life
 
Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: i come from a land downunder
Posts: 597
i am sorry to hear about the loss of this great guy, you cant take away the pain but you do keep the memories of him for the rest of your life
Reply With Quote
  #6  
Old 03-31-2006, 08:10 AM
WildIrish's Avatar
WildIrish WildIrish is offline
is not this trim anymore!
 
Join Date: Apr 2003
Location: New England
Posts: 21,709
I've lost a lot of people in the past six years, some of them very close to me. It doesn't get easier and you always feel cheated out of having even one more day with them.

I'm truly sorry for your loss.
Reply With Quote
  #7  
Old 03-31-2006, 08:42 AM
imaginewithme's Avatar
imaginewithme imaginewithme is offline
gurly gurl
 
Join Date: Feb 2004
Location: Reality
Posts: 33,683
Sounds like a great person.

Hugs to you.
__________________
~Tainted Love~
Reply With Quote
Reply


Thread Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search
Display Modes Rate This Thread
Rate This Thread:

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

vB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Forum Jump



All times are GMT -5. The time now is 06:29 PM.


Powered by: vBulletin Version 3.0.10
Copyright ©2000 - 2025, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.