So my question is this:

Does your brain need to be aroused in order for you to be turned on and to have an orgasm, or is it enough for just your genitals to be stimulated?

For me, if my head's not into it, you could stroke and play with my pussy all night and I wouldn't cum, or even really feel turned on, but if you whisper the right words in my ear, I could cum in a matter of seconds.

Is it the same for other people, or do you reach a point where all that stroking's going to have an effect, no matter what you're thinking about?
I wonder, do men and women differ in this respect?

Enquiring minds want to know.....

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There have been times when I thought I'd be able to make it happen despite my mood just to be reminded how much of a mental creature I am. No comments from the peanut gallery please! Mind you, I don't have to be horny out of my mind to have an orgasm...in fact, if I'm anything but totally stressed out and miserable I can usually work myself out of my funk and have a good time. And more importantly...be able to focus on Mrs. WI with the love and enthusiasm sex deserves. So I don't know if this helps or not. ha ha

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Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.

Rarely but it does happen that I can be strictly genitally stimulated while my mind is elsewhere and explode. More often, 95% of the time, I need to have him touch my soul not my pussy.

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If i'm not mentally stimulated then why bother?

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Gotta get into sex "head first"....otherwise, well, bits that usually like being touched sometimes start being ticklish. NOT good. Mind you, unless I'm pissed off or extremely tired, I'm usually to be talked into the right mood. Usually it doesn't take much, but it does have to start with my mind.

I,personally,have to be "mentally stimulated!My wife does also! Irish

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It's exactly the same for me.

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Wow, I'm surprised to see such a variety of answers here.......as gingerV said I find stimulation of certain parts of me at best ticklish and at worst painful if I'm not mentally aroused.

Thankfully of late I've been mentally aroused pretty much all of the time!

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I'm not sure if it would happen without any mental stimulation ... don't think it ever has. (But, then, I get involved easily. )

I'm trying to seperate the two and I can't. If someone is touching (stimulating) my pussy...believe me, I'm thinking about it...no matter what I was thinking just before.

Call me narrow minded (for lack of a better analogy), but if he's touching me I wouldn't be able to think of much else!

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To really completely give into it, get into my mind, make me feel good, tell me how bad you want me...and then it's a good time for sure!!!!

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