i was in an atlanta chatroom last night, and there was this gay guy in there talking about blowjob technique. well, i commented that i was very good at it. and he comments that no man is going to complain if he is getting a blowjob. he would just be polite. so, my question is, do men lie about telling us that we give good blowjobs, or do they not care as long as they are getting one. i say i'm damn good at it. ))

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Most men don't lie about it I think..they are just damn happy to be getting one...I am not sure if I am good at it or not, but never had complaints

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Here get your laughing gear round this. And I`ll tell ya if your any good or not !! ;-)
Personally I would never lie. But then I`ve never had a man do it.
And have no interest in finding out!!

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Personally, I wouldn't lie about it.
I would never be so impolite as to tell a girl that it was rubbish, but I wouldn't tell her that it was wonderful if it really wasn't.
I am sure you are very good at it pepsigirl. Although I couldn't say for sure unless.............

lol

well, my hunny compliments me all the time. "you're such a good cock sucker." "you're a whore for my cock." that kind of thing. and he keeps coming back for more. i've never had a complaint about a bj except for the first time i ever gave one, and that was the teeth complaint. and i've learned how to use my teeth properly during a blowjob. some men might not like the like scraping, but my man does.

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shoulda been light scraping.

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I think it all boils down to knowing what your partner wants, really. That's the important thing. There probably is no 'perfect blowjob'. Every guy probably has his own idea about what feels best. If your man likes a little tooth action and that is what you give him then you are doing good.
I myself am more of a tongue man. Teeth make me a little anxious. lol

oh i don't use the teeth all the time. i would say 10% of the time. mine is mostly tongue, lips and saliva. although i do wrap my lips around my teeth and go up and down on his shaft with a tight grip. he can feel the pressure of my teeth, but still have the feel of skin on his cock.

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Wow. Sounds pretty good to me. I'm turned on just reading your description! Don't listen to the bitchy gay chatroom guy. You sound like an expert.

(MrValentine drifts off dreaming of pepsigirl on her knees in front of him.........)

lol......yes, it is a move that definitely makes him moan a lot louder.

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Never had a bad bj, & I wouldn't tell her if it was...but my experience is they're all good, some are great, & once in a while...well, you know...
So if a guy wasn't enjoying a bj, you think he'd keep moaning his encouragement?

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Never argue with an idiot. He'll drag you down to his level, & beat you with experience.

i have had a less than impressive experience, but i tried to be encouraging as i could. if she has a bad experience giving head she's far less likely to do it again

the more solid and long lasting the relationship is the more open she will be to genuine honesty - not because she doesnt want you to be honest, but any degree of criticism will come across as much less harsh or condemning as time goes on

I imagine its the same with guys giving you head - you'll know whether you preferred one technique over another.

Enthusiasm for the job in hand is always a good start.

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Pepsigirl, it's really quite simple. The presence of a blowjob is much better than the absence of one about 99.9% of the time. I, personally, have given CONSTRUCTIVE criticism on occasion, but only because I thought that it was desperately needed(teeth, WAY too much enthusiasm, etc.).
But, for the most part, I usually keep my trap shut as I am most grateful for the effort, even if it is not the best. For me, it's the thought that counts.

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How about guys who don't receive blow jobs well..too much jerkin' etc...?

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