If given the right circumstances...and nobody would ever find out..especially your spouse/So....

Would you or wouldn't you have one?

Be honest!!

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*Diva*



"Never shall I forget the time I spent with you. Please
continue to be my friend, as you will always find me yours."
Ludwig van Beethoven (1770-1827)

"Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away."

The idea appeals to me but I have too much of a conscience, feel too guilty too easily. Would rather have my partner involved, if she is willing.

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Nobody find out?? I would know!

have been there-------the pain was too great--------if I stopped loving my partner and found that I was attracted to someone-else I would hope I would be strong enough to end one relationship before heading out on another----------------

I have too much respect for my s/o and wouldn't hurt him for the world-----------------also I can't see me ever being in that position------who couldn't love a wee furry super hero!

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Don't pet the sweaty things!!!!

Trouble is........ they DO find out!! Almost always, sooner or later.

Some of you may already know, that this is how my marriage ended.... "grass is greener " etc.etc. ......... well, Bollocks it is!
I am a very lucky guy, in that I found someone who takes me for what & who I am; but who also knows (I hope!) that I would rather cut it off, than even THINK of cheating on her....... she has given me trust that I'm still not sure I fully deserve; she is, quite simply, MY Angel!! SO, the answer is a definite NO.

You're the best, sweetie....... and I luv ya!!

DM

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The selfish, they're all standing in line
Faithing and hoping to buy themselves time
Me, I figure as each breath goes by
I only own my mind

Absolutely not...wouldn't take the chance of losing the best guy in my life.No way,no how would it be worth it.

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CAPTIVATE MY ATTENTION, POSSESS MY BODY, INVADE MY MIND, ROCK MY WORLD AND, CALL ME "YOUR" BITCH... YOU KNOW MY HUNGER, YOU OWN MY DESIRE, YOU HAVE MY WILL, TAKE ME BABY... DIVINE PLEASURE

No way would I cheat. The trust your spouse/SO places in your fidelity is awe-inspiring. You can never truly get it back if you screw up.

I was married to someone a few years ago that I considered my best friend yet I wasn't attracted to him sexually throughout most of our marriage which last a few years. Things were nice between us he was so good to me and would have done anything for me no matter what it was as I was to him. However, not being attracted to someone one sexually was extremely hard to deal with on a day to day basis for years and I was very frustrated but I still never cheated on him. Instead, we divorced and we each moved on with our lives. So if I would never cheat on someone I wasn't attracted to then I couldn't imagine cheating on someone I was really attracted to. So no matter how tempting it may be I just wouldn't ever do it. I couldn't live with myself after.

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Missy

Yes.......

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The practice of putting women on pedestals began to die out when it was discovered that they could give orders better from there.~ Betty Grable

If I wanted your opinion, I'd remove the duct tape and ask you for it.~ Me
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Interesting question...

I've been married (and divorced) twice. I know my first wife had several affairs, the second one did not. I only strayed once during both marriages. Is it right? No. Is it wrong. Probably.

I guess the bottom line is that going outside the marital bounds is a situation where you have to weigh what the risk is. The loss of the marriage is largest possible consequence. And the confusion and pain of the children of that marriage has to be considered should the marriage end.

But if you're on your way out of the marriage anyway, the risk is very small, so why the hell not.

Sometimes the risk is what makes the affair exciting anyway. If there wasn't the risk, would the affair be as exciting? I think that is where you'll find the truth of the matter.

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"Only two things are infinite, the universe and human stupidity, and I'm not sure about the former."
- Albert Einstein (1879-1955)

"God is a comedian playing to an audience too afraid to laugh."
- Voltaire (1694-1778)

"I shall not waste my days in trying to prolong them."
- Ian L. Fleming (1908-1964)

This is the question..............nobody would ever find out.........so the question for me is can you do it and live with knowing you did it?

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The practice of putting women on pedestals began to die out when it was discovered that they could give orders better from there.~ Betty Grable

If I wanted your opinion, I'd remove the duct tape and ask you for it.~ Me
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One man's dream is another man's nightmare~~~~> §¤ Lilith ¤§
~>My Scribbles<~
==>Gone Shopping<== ~Just a Quickie~ *~A Celebration Vacation~* ~Surprises~ Sleeping With the Window Open
What Did You Do Today? Self Defense Class ~Short Sweet Snippets~ § Summer Spin § Story Challenge Submission Pajamas

Yes...if it was the right situation with the right person.


rabbit

No matter what still wouldn't do it no matter how much I wanted to.

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Missy

If something is missing from the relationship and your s/o wouldn't try that something for one reason or another and somebody offered it to you. Your honestly telling me that you wouldn't if the circumstances were right.

I beleive I would...not to hurt him but to satisfy me...and make me happy for a while so I can try to convince him to try so I wouldn't have to.

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DAMN, YOU ARE A SEXY ONE-skipthisone

I beleive in the sweet spot, soft-core pornography, opening your presents Christmas morning rather than Christmas Eve, and I beleive in long, slow, deep, soft, wet kisses that last three days. Kevin Costner/Bull Duram

"Your body as well as mine has needs. This is juat a little foreplay to highten our desire for each other. If we play out the game of love to it's natural conclusion, you'll experience fulfillment. Give yourself up to me and I'll guide you along the path to pareadise. Together we will be like fire and ice, love and hate, life and death." Virginia Henley

WANTED: a moment when you kiss someone and eveything around you becomes hazy. And the only thing in focus is you and this person and you relize that he is the only person your suppose to kiss for the rest of your life. And for one moment you get this amazing gift. You want to laugh and you want to cry. Cause you feel so lucky that you found it and so scared it will all go away at the same time.