Ladies how do you know if your lover is about to cum in you--can you immediately tell that he had? Save for the after affect of the mess, I often have wondered if a woman could tell

From the other side: I know that my wife can't reliably tell.

oh I can tell when he's fighting it, holding back trying not to cum. He starts throbbing. I feel it and he starts taking really deep breaths. Then when he cums he stiffens and the pulsing really starts! MMMMMMMMMMMMMM There's usually those primal grunts and moans that go along with it.

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I feel his balls tighten, and just before there is this sudden swelling that fills me, so tight...mmmmmmm love that.

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mmmmmhmmmmmmmm that too!
Dayumn this discussion is making me horny.

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I am here for only a short time on this earth. My goal is to make everyone I see smile if only for a moment.

um...someone throw a glass of water at me please

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.

Oh yeah and lets don't forget those buttcheeks tightening up. Dayum I love to watch that in the mirror. :lust:

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I am here for only a short time on this earth. My goal is to make everyone I see smile if only for a moment.

Oh I can tell, at least I can now. Most of the time. He definately gets just a tiny bit harder right before he cums. I know it well from blow jobs...it's just the right point for me to back off a bit to drag out the fun. I didn't realize at first that it was what I was feeling inside as well, I just knew that even if I'd just had an orgasm myself...everything would go from "oh my god he feels good" to "OH MY GOD YES!!" just a handful of strokes before he came. Even if he wasn't moaning, grabbing my hips, saying wonderful things.....I'd know because his dick rubs me differently just then. More firmly, I guess.

I have to admit, my sensitivity to it depends on position sometimes, and, errr, exhaustion I think . It's something I pay a great deal of attention to when I'm on top....when I feel it I know to stop dead and wait for him to relax. But after I've cum a couple of times...I don't know if it's lubrication or just wearing out the sensors, but then it's not as easy to tell. Of course, if he's not in the mood to be patient with my teasing, he's learned to try to sneak his explosions into the midst of my orgasms....when I couldn't stop moving on him for anything. Sneaky...but much fun .

OK

My world is greatly expanded thank you all--further information is greatly appaciated

The sweat on the forehead and the throaty "oh God baby, I'm gonna cummm!!!" usually are a tipoff....

oooops... wait... that's what I do right before I orgasm..... sorry!

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so Cowgirl when do i get to show you how my buttcheeks tighten up?

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hungry? why wait.....eat me.

He gets bigger, and the urgency increases. I can ALWAYS tell the first time. When the orgasms start to get smaller -- say on the 3rd or 4th time -- sometimes I have a difficult time telling.

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