Do you masturbate often in front of or for the purpose of arousing your S/O?

Do you masturbate in front of your S/O for the purpose of your own sexual gratification with out involving your S/O?

When you see your S/O playing with themselves do you everremain disinterested or do you have to play too?

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If I feel like masturbating to have an orgasm, it is rarely in front of Mrs. WI, though I do have that whole "she's secretly watching me" fantasy going on. I will rarely masturbate in front of her just for the intention to bring myself to orgasm.

If we're having sex and are both totally turned on, sometimes I'll masturbate while performing oral on her. It's especially exciting when she reaches for me and discovers my hand already there working myself over. I can feel her reaction. I'll move my hand out of the way so she can take over, but that moment of discovery is very erotic.

If she is pleasuring herself in front of me, I am transfixed. I want to take over but it's such a beautiful and sexy sight that I am happy watching. I'll usually bring myself to orgasm watching her.

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If I masturbate in front of my S/O, it's because she is too tired for sex, but is not against watching/helping me cum.

If I see her masturbating, I will help by groping, feeling, pinching, and licking until she cums. This usually leads to sex.

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I haven't masturbated in front of my wife in quite a while. We used to do it just for something to do to drive each other completely crazy. I never had the control to keep my hands off of her, though. Actually, she'd get close and then I would slide my face between her legs and flick my tongue on her clit until she came. Although, I don't think she minded it too much.

I remember a woman I dated in college. She was the first woman to openly masturbate in front of me. It was mesmerizing... I learned a LOT about what satisfied her by watching and paying attention to how she got herself off.

Now, I just masturbate alone.

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I'll stand right in from of him and touch and finger myself....and when he reaches for me, I playfully back away. At that point he'll feel compelled to do.....something......so he'll stroke himself with a glazed look in his eyes as he watches me. When I can't take it anymore and I need to have something in me deeper than I can get my fingers, I'll get closer and closer to him till he can reach out and either pull me to him.....and do with me whatever he wants!

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Me and my guy often help ourselves along during sex. I've only masterbated once in front of him (or anyone), and he has only done it once in front of me. I thought it was a huge turn on, to be watched and to do the watching. Though it was also a very private thing, so it was a little hard for me to feel completely comfortable with it. I hope to do it again, I enjoyed sharing such a intimate thing with him.

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Mutual stroking is REALLY SOPHISTICATED SEX. Probably because it is more in the mind than the fingers. We have never actually managed to reach the end together (not for want of trying) but usually end up stroking each other instead or making love conventionally. We love it.

every time i feel evil ill play while hubbys watching, drives him crazy, it always works when im in the modd but he isnt lol so much fun to be evil he always joins in no matter how much i want to sit there and tease him lol for some reason i jus tdont mind the help!

~nikki~

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I don't in front of my SO and she doesnt do it at all.... although I would love to see her do it....

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