I went to a strip club tonight, It's about 30 minutes down the road, my roomates and I decided we needed to go. The first time I went to this club I went with one laid back, self confident guy, and one uptight, worried, married guy. We started tipping in front of the married guy, and he got pissed. It's been more fun ever since to toy with others that are there than to actually worry about my self. THe thing I noticed though was that aside from myself, the most inhibited people in the strip clubs are the "spoken for" men. I am just curious, if you go to a strip club with just the guys, do you share all of the stories with your G/F or wife. I may just be lucky, but I can. Is this rare?


The other revelation is that a bad DJ ruins a strip club. I used to be a DJ at a bar, and the one at the club tonight was depressing. Hell some woman looked like they where sleepwalking through most of their acts.

Final thought. Tuesday is a bad day to go to the strip club here.

My ex-wife used to be a dancer at a strip club in Texas. We were married at the time.

Nothing quite like having your wife come home from work rich, horny, and already dressed for sexcess, thigh-high leather boots and all....

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My b/f hasn't been to a strip club since we started seeing each other but I'd hate to hear he was uptight about telling me anything. He's shared stories of his drunken visits before. I'm sure we'll visit one together one of these days.

My SO is very anti strip-club, the last time I went for a bachelor party I hated to do it but I had to lie about where we went. The last time I went to one before that, I dont think she talked to me for a week. But anyway, I am very uninhibited at them always have been.

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Man, I must be one of teh lucky ones. My wife goes to strip clubs with me. Even tips the girls with me.


Bt Danny

"How ya do I, See you met my, Faithful.... Handyman" - Dr. Frank n Furter

I work in sales and have to go to a lot of strip clubs. Guys think it's fun to drag the woman along. I actually go *much* more often than my b/f.

Mostly it's bad music, shitty drinks, and not many women that I'm interested in. Occasionally I see a woman I wouldn't mind sucking on... Don't mind letting the guys know when I do. It really fucks with their heads. <grin>

Lunch time is busiest, and Thursday nights (not sure why).

It's also interesting...the strippers will let me get further with them than my male companions. Maybe less threatening???

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I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

Your wife sounds really cool!

Our local pub has dancers and we watch them when we visit. Can't say they're particularly good, even when it's pay day and there's money being spent at the bar. Milady says she wouldn't miss them if they left, but I guess it's something to watch.

Of course, as we're all honest, God-fearing Aussies, the girls have to wear pasties and a thong because we don't want to upset the uptight bastards on the Shire council. As if a few bouncing nipples would somehow leak out of the pub, float across town to the expensive places where they live and...... and what? Poke them in the eye?

I have been to a ton of bachelor parties that have been to strip clubs and also at guy's houses.

The one's at a house are much wilder and the girls are much more "interactive" shall I say.
I tell my S/O everything that goes on at them. Who participated and what happened and what the stripper looks like. She is actually interested and sometimes even gives some of my friends shit about it just for fun.
Also, she doesn't mind me going to a strip club once in a great while with the guys, in fact, sometimes only my S/O is the only one out of all my friends that knows. The other guys don't even tell theirs they are going. She figures, "is he really going to leave me for a stripper?" Probably not.
We have been to strip clubs together even and she just laughs at the chicks. Oh well, it works for us and keeps the jealousy to a minimum.

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"Women, you can't live with them ... pass the beer nuts." - Norm Peterson (George Wednt) on Cheers

"Sometimes you just have to say, what the fuck." - Tom Cruise in Risky Business

"It tastes so good. Once it hits your lips." - Frank the Tank in Old School

I used to work at a strip bar as a bartender for a few years.
The men who come in..watch..whislte and tip and drink......The odd one would get really rowdy and would have to be thrown out by a bouncer. But all in all the men were just there with there buddies to gawk at the dancing ladies.

Now.....women that go to make see the male stippers are UNCONTROLABLE!!!!!! They try to get up on stage..rip the g-strings off...yell..scream at the top of their lungs!! They would put $10 and $20 in the male strippers g-string...kiss and touch them...and they are the worst Tippers and nurse their drinks!!!!!!!!!!! Why do you think "most bars" charge a cover charge to see the male dancers??????

Let me tell you...I much preffered working when it was men's night!!

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"Never shall I forget the time I spent with you. Please
continue to be my friend, as you will always find me yours."
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"Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away."

I used to be a DJ and boucer at a bar that would get acts in every once and a while. If the manager asked if we would rather have Male strippers or female strippers we ALWAYS asked for the Male strippers. Firstly the Female strippers we could get weren't really that great, and second after a male show the bar was filled with Horny, sometimes drunk woman who let their standards down. Ah those where the days.

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Many years ago;I did a job for a friend;at Burlington Airport in
Vermont.He had a crew there;building small hangers;for private
airplanes.He couldn't be there all of the time and asked me if I
would supervise them when he wasn't there.We needed a place to go and hang out when we weren't working.There was a place
just outside of the back entrance.They had exotic(?) dancing
every night.One night a week was men dancing.I hated that night!The men were nothing special but every ugly,horney woman
for miles around;came there that night.I try to treat everyone with
respect;but you actually,almost had to insult;some of the women;
so that they would leave you alone afterwards.Our apartment had about 5 guys;and the TV got 2 channels;so you almost had to
go there.I was offered a job at the Harley shop there but I would
have had to sell my place and move my whole family! Irish

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Personally, I figure it's pretty harmless. After all, I'd rather my boyfriend tell me about what went on (and it hopefully lead to more sexy stuff) than lie to me about where he was... He doesn't really seem to be really into hanging around them much at all anyway, but I'd be up for going with him if that's what he wanted.

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Big controversy in my town at the moment as a lap dancing club has just been given the go ahead. Of course all those uptight anal retentives are up in arms, but I can't say I think it's going to make a big impact on my life personally.

Hell I found out what the girls there earn, I'm thinking of a career change! Just need to pay for the liposuction before I start! Lol.

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