How to talk my DH into trying MORE fun things!

He's been learning a few fun things as of late, but there are a couple of positions that I REALLY want to try.....I'm pretty sure he won't want to even attempt them.

God I hate begging. LOL How do I get him to try withOUT putting myself in the position of actually having to ASK??

Anyone else ever deal with this?

i have. what i have done is while doing it i will look at him and say "sweetie i really think we might like this new position" then before he has time to argue get into the position and if he really doesnt want to do it he will say so and with out argument go to another position. OR if you dont want to ask then while your goin at it or right before hand just get into the position. since I dont know what positions they are I cant really say what will be easy. Another thing you can do is before sex ask what he will like to try, come up with some things before even going to bed, then make sure you tell him what you want to try. If anything tell him youll try one for him if he does one for you. Hope this helps you.. If i think of anything else i will post it. IF you want to you can PM me anytime you can
Hopes for the best,
sarriah

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I have a wonderful book "The Joy of SEX", it has hundreds of wonderful positions, with illustrations and discusions on each one. look up the position you want to try, then get hubby to read all about it.

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Tried that already Murphy....
and have talked but he pretty much just thinks I'm nuts.



While that might be TRUE...I still want to try several things. Like I said, he has learned a few new tricks lately so I shouldn't complain, but *sigh*...sometimes it would be fun just to DO and not think about it.

Well, good luck, keep trying, maybe you'll luck out

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"Quando Flunkus Moritatii" (I'm a man, but I can change, if I have to, I guess.) - the Red Green Show



The best thing about taking a vacation, is all the heartfelt huggs received upon your return. - Murphy

"The more you love, the more you CAN love. There's no limit to how much you can love - or how many" Lazarus Long in "Time Enough for Love" - Robert A. Heinlein

Don't give up. Find out what positions he secretly would like

and trade off.

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OldFart, he doesn't have any he'd like to try!

I tease him and call him "Mister Missionary"......

Not a creative bone in that mans body, I swear.

mmmmmmmmmmm

Maybe a few of us should help RandyGal out

call on her occasionally

and leave no position untried

I'll volunteer

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Hey RandyGal~ Institute game night! Tell him you are gonna write down 5 positions or sex acts and ask him to do the same.....<here is where you can cheat and make all 5 of yours that new position you want to try> put em in a hat and let him draw one! Maybe you won't get lucky (you will ) but you will def have stacked the deck!

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Hey RG, we aren't married to the same man are we???????

No, can't be.......you're at least gettin' some even if it is boring!

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try pandering to his ego tell him this positon looks
fun but that he could never do it may work
every guy loves a chalange

RandyGal and Sugarsprinkes, I should have married one of you.
I had the a partner without any interest and it drove me nuts.
It eventually was the major reason for our nmarriage failing, I was not cut out for celibacy

GB: I'd marry either of them, or both of them, if'n we all weren't allready...

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"Quando Flunkus Moritatii" (I'm a man, but I can change, if I have to, I guess.) - the Red Green Show



The best thing about taking a vacation, is all the heartfelt huggs received upon your return. - Murphy

"The more you love, the more you CAN love. There's no limit to how much you can love - or how many" Lazarus Long in "Time Enough for Love" - Robert A. Heinlein

Shhhhh, Murph!!! I won't tell if you don't!!

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Just Desserts
Internet Lovers Meet - Part 1
Internet Lovers Meet - Part 2
Internet Lovers Meet - Part 3
RAVISHED!!
My Birthday - A Fantasy

SS: I never ________ and tell...unless I can get a really juicy poem or balad out of it...

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"Quando Flunkus Moritatii" (I'm a man, but I can change, if I have to, I guess.) - the Red Green Show



The best thing about taking a vacation, is all the heartfelt huggs received upon your return. - Murphy

"The more you love, the more you CAN love. There's no limit to how much you can love - or how many" Lazarus Long in "Time Enough for Love" - Robert A. Heinlein