Was talking (read as; putting on a little "self love theater") about this with Mr. Lil last night. Ladies, when you masturbate is your primary focus on the external, clit, or the internal, vaginal pentration? Is one satisfying with out the other? or can you only achieve the BIG O via one, or the other, or both?

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It used to be just clit, but for quite a while now, it's been almost impossible for me to have the gigantic or "major" orgasms w/o g-spot stimulation simultaneously w/clit stimulation. Once the clitoral orgasm is triggered, however, it's the vaginal orgasm that goes on and on and on and on.

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Of ALL of the women,that I have known,in my MANY years,only 3
masturbated vaginally.The rest were clitorally.(word?)In my younger days,I don't think that anyone,had ever heard of a G-spot.As you get older,your habits have already developed.In,older
yrs,people know what has always worked,& there is not much
experimentation. Irish
P.S.This is just what I have found & I'm sure doesn't cover all
cases!

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I'm with BlueSwede.... it used to be all about the clit, and I have ok orgasms with clit stimulation alone... but the best and longest orgasms are with clit and g-spot stimulation. Even better is clit, g-spot and nipple stimulation

I agree with you too, Irish... in my younger days I didn't know what a g-spot was, but I sure knew that I liked it a certain way, so even if my mind didn't know the terminology, my body didn't care, cuz it understood!

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Im with flutelady all the way. Learned clit first but now i know my g spot and the best are with both!!

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Why did I think this thread was about belly buttons?

And does Mr Lil mind being called 'Mr Lil'?

"self love theater".... hmmm, I like that phrase.


But to the question at hand, literally...... lol.
Used to be only clitoral would do it, but now vaginal is great too. Sometimes alone but usually combined with clitoral. And definetly don't forget nipple stimulation as flutelady said!


ps: Mines an 'innie'..... just in case ya need to know.

LMAO Teddy Bear... so is mine!

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Dear Lord, I pray for wisdom to understand my man, love to forgive him, and patience for his moods. Because Lord, if I pray for strength, I'll beat him to death. AMEN


It's no trick loving somebody at their best. Love is loving them at their worst.
~Tom Stoppard~


It isn't premarital sex if you have no intention of getting married.
~George Burns~


As bad as I am, I'm proud of the fact that I'm worse than I seem.
~A. DiFranco~

I married my wife in 1965.Altho,when dating,we indulged in mutual masturbation,quite a bit.In those days,women didn't admit,to self masturbation.It wasn't until after we were married,
that she admitted to doing herself,almost every night.This shows,
how the times & morals have changed! Irish
P.S.Also at that time,she thought that if I did it,she wasn't satisfying me!That also shows,how things are looked at differently.Actually,our daughters,are probably older(34 & 36)then
most of the members.

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Well me I can have a release just from clitoral stimulation. Great if you are really stressed and just need to cum or if you don't have a lot of time. But the best orgasms come for me when I have both vaginal and clitoral stimulation. For some reason it just feels better to have something in me when I cum and it lasts longer too

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SK~ That is how I feel too. When I come I want something inside me. I always imagine it to be a firm cock filling me. Me, wrapped tightly around it, spasming, tightening and releasing as the pressure builds. Often I need to feel fucked not just get off.

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If I wanted your opinion, I'd remove the duct tape and ask you for it.~ Me
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What Did You Do Today? Self Defense Class ~Short Sweet Snippets~ § Summer Spin § Story Challenge Submission Pajamas

i just had a mental image.......and it was good!

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I thought you were talking about belly buttons to.Like Poco in the comics,mine is on my back side.So how can I tell? Self Love Theatre??? Where do I buy tickets? I know you pixie lasses do realize that a man's nipples are very sensative and respond well to stimulation.Aurora my sweet,May I borrow your thumbs for a couple of hours? Yeah right there.oooph!aaahhh...thats it.....

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I personaly can't cum unless something is stimulating my clit. However g-spot and clit combo? That is the best, and the only thing that makes it even better for me, is a little anal play at the same time.

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When I am doing it myself, it always happens on my clit. But the idea of him being deep inside me helps me reach it a lot faster.

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