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oral sex 101
I saw this on one of those other form sites and thought it was worth spreading around. I mean good advice is good advice no matter the source.
I'm new but have read a lot of posts about guys having trouble bringing their ladies to orgasm. I'm fifty years old and have some experience with this. Here's the correct and sure way to do it:
Most women are shy about their bodies. Even if you've got the world's most gorgeous woman in bed with you,
she's going to worry about how you like her body. Tell her it's beautiful,
tell her which parts you like best, tell her anything, but get her to trust
you enough to let you down between her legs. Now stop and look at what you
see.
Beautiful, isn't it?
There is nothing that makes a woman more unique than her p***y. I know. I've
seen plenty of them. They come in all different sizes, colors and shapes;
some are tucked inside and some have thick
luscious lips that come out to greet you. Some are nested in brushes of fur
and others are covered with transparent fuzz. Appreciate your woman's
unique qualities and tell her what makes her special. Women are a good deal
more verbal than men, especially during love-making. They also respond more
to verbal love, which means, the more you talk to her, the easier it will be
to get her off. So all the time you're petting and stroking her beautiful
p***y, talk to her about it. Now look at it again. Gently pull the lips
apart and look at her inner lips, even lick them if you want to. Now spread
the tops of her pussy up until you can find her clit. Women have clits in
all different sizes, just like you guys have different sized c**ks. It
doesn't mean a thing as far as her capacity for orgasm. All it means is more
of her is hidden underneath her foreskin. Whenever you touch a woman's
p***y, make sure your finger is wet. You can lick it or moisten it with
juices from inside her. Be sure, by all means, to wet it before you touch
her clit because it doesn't have any juices of it's own and it's extremely
sensitive. Your finger will stick to it if it's dry and that hurts. But you
don't want to touch her clit anyway. You have to work up to that. Before she
becomes aroused, her clit is too delicate to be handled. Approach her p***y
slowly. Women, even more so than men, love to be teased. The inner part of
her thigh is her most tender spot. Lick it, kiss it, make designs on it with
the tip of your tongue. Come dangerously close to her p***y, then float
away. Make her anticipate it. Now lick the crease where her leg joins her
p***y. Nuzzle your face into her bush. Brush your lips over her slit without
pressing down on it to further excite her. After you've done this to the
point where your lady is bucking up from her seat and she's straining to get
more of you closer to her, then put your lips right on top of her slit. Kiss
her, gently, then harder. Now use your tongue to separate her lips and
when she opens up, run your tongue up and down between the.
Gently spread her legs more with your hands. Everything you do with a
woman you're about to eat must be done gently. Tongue her. This feels
divine. It also teases the hell out of her because by now she wants some
attention given to her clit.
Check it out. See if her clit has gotten hard enough to peek out of it's
covering. If so, lick it. If you can't see it, it might still be waiting for
you underneath. So bring your tongue up tot he top of her slit and feel for
her clit. You may barely experience it's presence. But even if you can't
feel the tiny pearl, you can make it rise by licking the skin that covers
it. Lick hard now and press into her skin. Gently pull the lips away
and flick your tongue against the clit, hood covered or not. Do this
quickly. This should cause her legs to shudder. When you sense she's
getting up there toward orgasm, make your lips into an O and take the clit
into your mouth. Start to suck gently and watch your lady's face for her
reaction. If she can handle it, begin to suck harder. If she digs it, suck
even harder. Go with her. If she lifts her pelvis into the air with the
tension of her rising orgasm, move with her, don't fight her. Hang on, and
keep your hot mouth on her clit. Don't let go. That's what she'll be saying
too: 'Don't stop. Don't ever stop!' There's a reason for that, most men
stop too soon There's another thing you can do to intensify your woman's
pleasure. You can finger her while she's enjoying your clit-licking
talents. Before, during or after. She'll really like it. In addition to the
erogenous zones surrounding her clit, a woman has another extremely
sensitive area at the roof of her vagina. This is what you rub up against
when you're making love. Well, since your penis is pretty far away from your
mouth, your finger will have to do the stroking. Take two fingers. One is too
skinny and three is too wide and therefore can't get deep enough. Make sure
they're wet so you don't irritate her skin. Slide them inside, slowly at
first, then a little faster. Speed up only
when she does. Listen to her breathing. She'll let you know what to do. If
you're sucking her clit and fingering her at the same time, you're
giving her far more stimulation than you would be giving her with your penis
alone. So you can count on it that she's getting high on this. If there's
any doubt, check her out for symptoms. Each woman is unique. You may have
one who's nipples get hard when she's excited or only when she's having an
orgasm. Your girl might flush red or begin to tremble. Get to know her
symptoms and you'll be a more sensitive lover. When she starts to have an
orgasm, for heaven's sakes, don't let go of that clit. Hang in there for the
duration. When she starts to come down from the first orgasm, press your
tongue along the underside of the clit, leaving your lips covering the top.
Move your tongue in and out of her. If your fingers are inside, move
them a little too, gently though, things are extremely sensitive just now.
If you play your cards right, you'll get some multiple orgasms this way. A
woman stays excited for a full hour after she's had an orgasm. Do you
realize the full impact of that information? The potential?
The last advice I have for you is this: After you've made her cum,
made her your slave by giving her the best head she's ever had, don't leave
her alone just yet. Talk to her, stroke her body, caress her breasts. Keep
making love to her quietly until she's come all the way down. A man can get
off and go to sleep in the same breath and feel no remorse, no sense of
loss. But a woman by nature requires some sensitivity from her lover in
those first few moments after sex. Oral sex can be the most exciting sexual
experiences you can have. But it's what you make it. Take your time,
practice often, pay attention to your lover's signals, and most of all,
enjoy yourself.
kjmk
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Mind what poeple do not only what they say, for deeds will betray a lie.
Terry Goodkind, Wizzards Fifth Rule
There are two things a real man likes--danger and play;and he likes woman because she is the most dangerous of playthings.
Nietzsche
Monogamy does not have to mean Monotony
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