I aslo agree with everyone else. Honesty is the best policy!!!
tell your wife everything that has been going on and that you aren't interested in the X at all...(or are you wishing that something might happen? You never did say... )

Comminucation and honesty is something so many people lack in their relationships.

So before your wife hears it from an aquaintance that we was at your office...tell her even if it will upset her. But she will respect you, love you more for being honest!

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*Diva*



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