it took me a bit of time, but after an introduction by a previous lover and much enthusiasm from my current, it's become a fav activity of mine ... when there's lots of lube and i'm in the mood it's quite fantastic. at first, i had some mental trouble in the form of "what if i like this too much, does that mean i'm not straight, etc.) all that crap goes away with a good lover with a great touch. i reciprocate as she likes it, too.

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I guess it comes down to a simple choice, really. Get busy livin' or get busy dyin'.
--in 'Shawshank Redemption'