Nope, it really makes no difference as to your size unless it's smaller than a finger, but then I suggest you see a doctor about that one...

On the topic of your girlfriend's lack of orgasms, I think CGT has a good idea that she needs to relax. If that doesn't work, I'm not sure...it could be biological...

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