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"Sex in between your ears, not between your legs"
I don't remember who said that, but I agree with it.
I love sex, and I do orgasm frequently, but I DON'T come every time. Sometimes it is me, sometimes it is him or her, and sometimes, who knows? But I love the feelings, the tastes, the emotions and everything about sex, and wouldn't stop even if my orgasms did, (I think).
You men are funny, in that so many of you think you HAVE to be the one to make your partner cum, and that our using our hand or a toy to orgasm is some how disrespectful or otherwise insulting to you.
I know this is not true of all men especially the dear men I have found in here, in Pixies, but it is true of so many of the men I meet in Real Life.
This is one reason sex with other women is more... thoughtful? I am not sure of the word I want here, mental, or emotional, maybe? Even in a one night/ one time encounter.
I have avoided "faking" it, I hate lying to anyone.
I have learned that if I realize I am NOT going to cum this time, or again, or whatever, to simply announce that I want him to cum in my mouth, or on my boobs or where ever, is a nice, pleasant (for both of us) way to end the encounter. Sometimes this has even made me orgasm unexpectedly.
Men also need to realize that we don't always have a monster orgasm everytime. I treasure the "little ones", the ones that make me feel warm and flushed and released, as much as the extreme, explosive, screamers that leave me limp, dazed, dizzy and nearly unconcious for several minutes afterwards.
I DON'T want every orgasm to be like that.
I WANT variety! It doesn't mean you aren't a good, satisfying lover if I don't scream myself hoarse, and drool out of the corner of my mouth! (that is soo embarassing, too)
OMG! This soap box got really tall really fast.
It frightens me a little to think there are so many women who never orgasm. I wonder why, wonder if they are unhappy, or confused, or sick, or just not wired to really enjoy sex, or what?
Hon, you come with multiple orgasms when he eats you! I think this means that you simply require more clitoral stimulation, as several others already said in this thread...
Now, how to get off this damn soapbox!!???
Someone help! And then make love to me afterwards?

"in vino, veritas"

(yes I am very buzzed right now)

Wanda