My wife and I have been married for 37yrs.I always said that we're just like magnets-likes repell & unlikes attract!We respect;
each others wishes immensely!Yesterday was my nonalcoholic anniversary;9yrs11mo.I am an alchoholic(sp)I know it isn't supposed to be the reason;but I quit mainly because of my wife&
daughters!You have to decide if the other person;has the inner
self;that you want to spend your life with.If the other person is a
good person it makes it all worth while.No two people are exactly
the same.What matters is compromising and having mutual respect.It's easier to quit than to make things work;that's why there are so many divorces! Irish
P.S.My $.02.

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Irish---Better to be dead & cool,then alive & uncool!
(Harley Davidson & the Marlboro Man)