I just got a chance to read this thread and I've got to say I am sooooo disappointed!

I'll start by saying...Welcum to Pixies sexystud34! I wish I didn't have to say what I am about to say...but I feel compelled.

I don't know very much about you except what I've read in this thread. From this alone I am making the observation that you didn't come to the Advice Forum for actual advice...but more for a confidence builder, and then (after the fact) to brag! You asked many questions and then just disregarded the well intended and intelligent advice offered. I don't see your point in asking when it seems you had your mind set before the goal. I might be out of line here...but if I had been involved in this thread initially (like our fellow Pixies above me) and read your last reply...I'd feel used! If you'll notice...not many have spoken to this subject since your last post...and I bet I know why.

Of course...it's your life and you have to live with your actions, but some really concerned friends have tried to give you their best advice with no reason other than we care when someone asks questions and needs help and is inexperienced and seems to be taking a road that may not be the best for them and all involved. Most of the Pixies that replied here have life experience that can truly help others...if the advice is heeded and truly appreciated. I guess what I'm saying is...if you ask a question and you get 15 "same" answers and then you do the opposite anyway...you get what you deserve in the end! I hope with all my heart that all you got from your experience is a busted nut and a new g/f! I can imagine so many things going so wrong with the experince of that one evening...as you explained it!

I wish you well sexystud34!

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