I'll second the above two motions as well, because their inverses are also true, very definitely. But as for Lou...

Here is truly where men and womens brains are differently structured. I like the thought of being able to go up to a girl I like, one who I may only have spoken to for a few minutes, and asking for sex as if I were asking her for a light. Men want to spread their seed, while most women want something from a guy before sleeping with him.

But nobody can tell me that Miss Millionairess doesn't have a different gigolo in her bedroom every few weeks, if not more often. No? Bullshit. If I were a fabulously rich young post-settlement heiress, I'd be screwing a different Chippendale every week, because I know I can afford to do so, and if Mr Chip tries anything nasty, my 2 waiting bodyguards will tear him a new one. And if THEY are in cahoots with Chip, my 2nd level of trusty security will, upon sighting the transgression via the hidden ceiling cams, storm the bedchambers and rip all the men already inside to bits.

Most women don't have the resources needed for the above. Neither do most men, and to make matters worse, neither side is doing much to mitigate the situation. But if you ADD the resources necessary, within a not so long period of time people WILL fuck normally. My entire point is that sex is a simple, biological function like eating, drinking or breathing, so why the FUCK do we still attach so much stigma to it?

It'll happen, trust me. The shame of it is I'll probably be an old coot by the time it does, and no doubt I'll cry with overdue joy at the dawn of this beautiful new world, but it WILL happen. Having sex with an attractive stranger in a bar a few minutes of meeting will be no more a big deal than buying him a beer in the same bar. Sex in public will be contentious for a while, but will one day be as acceptable as using toothpicks after eating in a steakhouse.

Gotta say, I'm quite surprised by the comparatively victorian approaches of some of you Pixie ladies. I expected better, but the day WILL come when the 2020/2030's version of 'Sex In The City', as a reflection of (then) current life, features 3 'Samantha' type characters, and only one 'Charlotte' type (although that woman is a scorcher...it must be the glasses that do it for me!!)




Jaybee.