jaybee -

I have found something on which we agree! Yes, I DO want more sex......definitely! LOADS of it! I want sex at least three times a day!

But I only want it with my chosen partner. And if I wasn't with him, despite still being desperate for sex three times a day, I STILL wouldn't be taking the opportunity to shag the enthusiastic post boy, or even be appreciative of his erection. Why? Because I'm not in the slightest bit attracted to him. Why? Because he's a stranger. I don't fancy people until I've got to know them. I'm not interested in a random sex act with a stranger, I have no desire to get physically close to a man I don't know.

And I'm not scared of accidental insemination......that's why there are contraceptives. And I'm not frigid (I've been masturbating to orgasm since the age of 8, for Christ's sake). And I'm not scared of being raped (I can honestly say that weeks, maybe months go by at a time, when the thought doesn't even cross my mind) I'm just not turned on by the sight of someone I'm not attracted to having an erection. In general it's just not the way that women are wired.....and I'm afraid that's all there is to it.

I wonder if I am alone in this respect, or whether women would agree with me here. My main reason for not having sex with random people (the way you think it should happen for your future son - by the way, have you read 'Brave New World'?) is because I have never found myself in a situation where I've wanted to. To confirm, I've only ever had one one night stand and that was with a friend I'd had for 2 years, the shortest amount of time I've ever spent getting to know someone before so much as kissing them is about 3 weeks. I guess I'm just not that easy to arouse - if anything because it takes my body some convincing that the pleasure it might gain from a sexual encounter with a particular man, is going to be better than the pleasure I can give myself. And my instincts have usually been right! LOL

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