09-29-2004, 09:38 AM
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Resurfacing
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Join Date: Jul 2003
Location: New Orleans
Posts: 1,908
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Originally Posted by jaybee from UK
When I said appreciation for male sexuality, I was speaking here of expression between non-Pixies. Many women, sadly, fear the sexual urges of strange males, and that CANNOT be healthy. Yes, I know the imbalance stems from the fact that we're a lot stronger than you, but regardless, I'm making the point that any imbalance isn't good for either gender. Men were made stronger than women to aid procreation, but ironically, this imbalance has the opposite effect in modern society, and actually means we get less - both men AND women.
My point is that, although we men have always been less fearful of your sexuality than you were of ours, as time moves forward we are now (and consequently and increasingly) more accepting of yours than you are of ours. It's fear - logical, but nonetheless unhealthy fear - of men that constrains you, and also means we don't get as much... 
Jaybee.
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Ok - I do feel that the fear of the sexual urges of *strange* males should be perfectly healthy for women to a certain extent. You forget that woman often victims of sexual predation by men. A woman might not think, "nice cock there", but more like, "will this man hurt me?".
Also I don't think that if women became men for a month would do much to change the situation. The idea of a female nude to this day still embodies a passive role more or less. It is something to be looked at by the active (usually male) spectator. So a strange female nude would be considered less intimating by most. I don't think that is the case at all with the male nude which might explain some discrepancies.
Also, I was curious as what you meant about men being stronger than women to aid in procreation.
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