I never have a problem with a man flirting -- or even asking if I want to have sex with him -- as long as he does it nicely. In fact, I find it flattering. Now, if this same guy starts *stalking* me, then I have a different opinion.

Now, I have a whole list of men who I work with whom I would *not* toss out of bed, given the chance. I also have a list of Pixies I feel the same way about, in case you're wondering. Everyone else's attentions are, at best, flattering....

I am not the most ideal woman in the world. My curves have curves, and I have a very...polarizing...personality. I have absolutely no doubt that some of the men on my list would find me unattractive. That's OK...It's life.

If the opportunity ever arose with a man on the list, I might make a move. If he said no, I would move on and understand. I expect men to act the same way.

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney