Ginger, you're a woman after my own heart. I think I coulda written what you said (not so eloquently) ~~ my first was very large (he was just big all over). But my S/O -- who I have been with for 10 years -- is much smaller than average. He's a 5'7" Asian...and very proportionate for his size and race. But it doesn't matter-- I love him and feel a connection with him, so the penis size doesn't matter. And all the equipment still works the same, and I receive the same amount of pleasure.

My earlier response was somewhat flippant. Mostly because I see size as a non-issue. And I see that that lovely ladies above me agree. Please quit worrying. This issue is not worth your time or thoughts.

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