OK, I'll be the shallow one here.

Don't think of me as a jackass, this is just how I am (ok maybe I am a jackass...!!!).

I simply cannot get into sex with someone if I don't find them attractive. Perfect - doesn't exist. But attractive to me PHYSICALLY is what most likely drew me to her in the first place.

I prefer women with smaller chests. I'm more of an ass man than anything though. And oh yeah, redheads are tops, too. And...I digress.

I'm not saying I can't enjoy being with a woman with a big chest, because I can. But chances are I wouldn't be "pursuing" her in the first place, if I thought her knockers were too big for my tastes.

Now...lets say I find someone that's what I am looking for physically. Then we fall in love because what's inside her is just as good, or better, than what's outside.

She pops out 2-3 kids. Body changes. Bigger boobs. Bigger butt. A little bit around the middle. Whatever. I'm already in love with her...and once that happens the physical side - while still important (get in the gym, dammit!!!) - doesn't matter as much.

I can't look at someone and fall in love/lust with her personality. It's a physical thing at first...that's the attraction. The rest is the icing on the cake - if it works out. Or, it's the sour grapes if it doesn't!

Hope I made sense...!!! :d: